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Hey All

I just want to get your guys opinion on something.

Lets say you saw a pretty girl but you have nothing common with her like no mutual friends or anything like that.

Is there a way to approach a girl without looking desperate or looking like a douchebag. I was about to do a Joey Tribanni "how you doin"..but that would look too sad.


So, how would you approach a girl when you have nothing in common to talk about.. what would be your "move"



thanks,
 

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Females are free to make their own threads about approaching guys

Or perhaps they fear risking the bos archetype sending them creepy PMs
shuu bby, MX2 is not the only thing high scaling right now
 

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Females are free to make their own threads about approaching guys

Or perhaps they fear risking the bos archetype sending them creepy PMs
Yes they are and I would leave the exact same post regardless of gender

Unless OP approaches his interest with a knife and a serial killer get go, I don't think there should be any problems.
 

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Go up to a slut and say, i want to fuck you.... that work 100% of the time with me

I WAS JUST FUCKING KIDDING
 

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Yes they are and I would leave the exact same post regardless of gender

Unless OP approaches his interest with a knife and a serial killer get go, I don't think there should be any problems.
Except the OP already stated his problem of having nothing in common to talk about. If he manages to approach a girl, he wouldn't know what to say. That being said, I got your back, OP. What you gotta do is you need to talk about a multitude of things. So depending on whether you have school, uni or work or something else, you talk about work/school/uni, ask about subjects, desired occupations, events they're going to. You need to talk about a range of things to see if you can find a common or interesting one.
Tip: ask about her life, then talk about yours if you find the topic clicks with your interests.
 

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If you really want a deep understanding, download this book: Day Bang.

If you want a basic introduction, just look at videos on youtube, but only from men. Never take dating advice from a woman.

 

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Never take dating advice from a woman.
For the love of god never take dating advice from someone with a fucking anime avatar
SylviaB with the solid advice.

What you gotta do is you need to talk about a multitude of things. So depending on whether you have school, uni or work or something else, you talk about work/school/uni, ask about subjects, desired occupations, events they're going to. You need to talk about a range of things to see if you can find a common or interesting one. Tip: ask about her life, then talk about yours if you find the topic clicks with your interests.
Weren't you the guy asking for relationship advice like a couple of days ago? I'm by no means an expert on women, but i don't think interrogating a girl with generic questions is gonna get you anywhere, tbh sounds like your trying to make a friend.
 
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Except the OP already stated his problem of having nothing in common to talk about. If he manages to approach a girl, he wouldn't know what to say. That being said, I got your back, OP. What you gotta do is you need to talk about a multitude of things. So depending on whether you have school, uni or work or something else, you talk about work/school/uni, ask about subjects, desired occupations, events they're going to. You need to talk about a range of things to see if you can find a common or interesting one.
Tip: ask about her life, then talk about yours if you find the topic clicks with your interests.
It's basically what you'd talk about if you met anyone for the first time

den wtf u b cryin for btch????
every person who asks this

SylviaB with the solid advice.



Weren't you the guy asking for relationship advice like a couple of days ago? I'm by no means an expert on women, but i don't think interrogating a girl with generic questions is gonna get you anywhere, tbh sounds like your trying to make a friend.
like ur the one to talk lol

ilz
 

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Stop asking stupid shit on boredofstudies and make some friends who'll help you out.

There is no 'trick' just fucking talk to the girl unless you're a 4 and she's a 9 then don't worry.
 

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Stop asking stupid shit on boredofstudies and make some friends who'll help you out.
He's obviously a shy little nerd whose friends would be no better at this shit than he is.

There is no 'trick' just fucking talk to the girl unless you're a 4 and she's a 9 then don't worry.
Well if he's a normal person but not super attractive then this is a good way to get friendzoned. If he's awkward then he'll probably just creep her tfo.
 

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