Whenever it comes naturally, but it may seem a little odd or unexpected if you say it 'too early'.**Temptation** said:hey guys/ gurls,
just curious, say ur in a relationship, is there a certain amount of time in the relationship that it is too ealy to say that u love the other person?
lmao...rite on! best quote eva...ur_inner_child said:John Mayer Quote Time!!!
It's a good read.
"When you first meet somebody, you find out they like you first of all. A friend of a friend of their’s says he or she really really likes you and it floors you, kills you, sends you to the ground. You gotta pick yourself up off the ground and then you get their phone number and you call them up right and you say “Yeah that was a great phone conversation, can I see you sometime?” And then they say this, they say, “I’d like that” And “I’d like that” makes you fall on the floor again. Your heart is about to stop because of “I’d like that.” Nothing feels better than “I’d like that.” So now, your blood pressure’s goin’. You’re six feet off the ground. You can’t sleep because of “I’d like that.”
So then you hang out for a while and you call and you talk on the phone all the time and then you drop the bomb or what feels like the bomb. You say, “You know what? I’ve been thinkin about you a lot.” And see goes “Haaaaugh!” And you go “What happened?” and she goes “I’m sorry. I just. I just. I just. That’s… I’ve been thinking about you too.” BAM! Higher into the sky. But now, “I’d like that?” Done! Now you’re up to “I’m thinking about you.”
Then, however number of months pass, it makes you feel comfortable saying it, you say “I gotta tell you something.” They go “What?” You go, “I’m in love with you.” And nothing in the world sounds better than “I’m in love with you.” And then maybe she starts crying or maybe he goes “Huuugh!” And then all of a sudden you’re like, “I’m in.” But now, what doesn’t work? “I’d like that” and “I’ve been thinkin about you.” Now we’re at “I’m in love with you.”
Then maybe someday we move up to “I love you.”Fastforward, now you’re like “I love you a lot. I love you more than anything in life.” Now “I love you” doesn’t work. It’s a threshold. It keeps moving up.
Fastforward like six months, six weeks, whatever the case may be. Now you’re on like, “I wanna marry you. I wanna impregnate you with my love. I wanna- I wanna just send my love to you. Damnit! Words don’t work anymore!” And then you say this line and you know-you know you’ve used this line before. “I just wish they’d put a new word in the dictionary bigger than love, cuz love just doesn’t decribe what I feel.”
And so then, now he or she starts asking “Do you love me?” And you start going, “Of course I love you.” “Well say it!” And then it becomes “Say it twice” and they go “Say it three times.' And then, you cross a really interesting point, where all of a sudden it becomes “I hate you. I hate you.” And you go “Oh my God, she hates me.” And now it’s “I hate you more than anything!” And then it’s like “We’re over!” And they’re like “No, we’re not!” And you go “Yes we are!”
And now the words completely do not work at all. You’re left with nothing. You’re throwing punches under water. You’re done!
You know what the moral of this story is – if there is one?
Never ever, ever, ever underestimate the power of “I’d like that."
stop watching the OC**Temptation** said:like the guy that, well its a hard situation and its a long story, i wanna say it to him, but im afraid, it will like scare him or something, like things are TOO serious...or something like that..this guy means so much to him and i want him to know how i feel about him, i just dunt know how or wen to say it
Got any advice for me?
absolutely noting, just because i may be one of the few who do not watch the show, doenst mean there is something wrong with me, i have neva watched it, so i wuldnt know wat goes on, or the basis of the showabsolution* said:what the hell is wrong with you
Do you sleep with him?champ_sammy_19 said:I've known this guy for just over a month now and we are really close friends (kinda like we've known each other forever) and we say I love you's to each other all the time even though we're not 'together'
But we act soooooo much like a couple all the time, he ring every night and helps me through the family probs I'm having at the moment and he is helping me since I'm very sick atm