UPDATE:
Well in the past month i've been working at improving my 'ways', but it seems like there's still an issue. I still can't orgasm by the 'normal' way and it's just starting to feel weirder and weirder and damn irritating.
I have contacted the doctor about this, and she simply shrugged...
Nah its just not the same against the hand, things are infact more cleaner as the seamen doesnt go anywhere but in your jocks.
I've found that the sensation is best whilst doing it in polyester pants/shorts.
Well i'v only used the hand once, which was when i couldn't find any flat surface, but it took more then a hour. I'm worried that during sex i might not orgasm and have to end up using the girl's back or something.
I thought this was common.
Yes i'm too embarrassed to ask this under my real account.
But for several years now i've been stimulating myself by lying 'face down' ie i don't like using hands, and the bed is my choice, i've always found this more comfortable and easier to orgasm. Until recently i came across an article...