I can help you out
i wont type all the answers due to time consuming, though i did find most of the answers on this page...i am currently doing somthing very similar
Google
sry i wont be much help cause i am quite half asleep
but with glass jar
look at the religious aspects of it, and the memlose law or somthing, which is that the child is jealous of the father and finds him a threat between the child and the mother
as for alter ego im sorry