I don't know the answer to that question.... because with felicity, everytime I close my eyes and most of the time when I'm awake I still think of her, no amount of changing around my room, drinking or change in my life affects how much I miss her. I think for everyone it is different and I've just conceded the fact that it might be a hell of a long time before I get over her, but I always wonder whether I want to get over her, whether I just want to forget about it all.... because I cherished every moment I spent with her, so I think in the end, she'll still occupy a part of myself but its just a matter of growing and adjusting to a life without her and accepting the future experiences that will come upon me.