just a mate (2 Viewers)

[val_dramaqueen]

am i the only one around here who is only seen by guys as "The Mate"? the one you have a drink with but would never go out with? the one who's a laugh?

i am constantly "The Mate" and it's shit!!

anyone else in the same boat? any advice?

and also... dating a mate... good or bad?

 

[lengstar]

i have to same problem with girls. i always end up as there friends.

 

[val_dramaqueen]

i tried to get to know this guy cause i seriously liked him... and now we're best mates!! gahhh!!

its crap, hey!

 

[mack]

"Id really just like us to be friends"

The one sentence every man dreads.

 

[val_dramaqueen]

you mean, guys have to put up with it too? damn!

what are we going to do? hehehe

 

[lengstar]

ah well. its best to get to know something about the person first. i don't like random pickups.

 

[val_dramaqueen]

except, that... i get to know people and then they're like "man, she's a cool mate" and that's it!

throw me a frikkin bone here scott....

 

[Atotoi]

ohhhhhh this... jeez, many people can relate to you girly!
Even Seinfeld tackled this - the "friend" zone, actually Chris ROck did too -

"Women get to have platonic friends...Men dont have platonic friends, okay, we just have women we havent F*cked YET!
As soon as i figure this out, im in there!
Look, we, i mean , i got some platonic friends, but ohhhh no, i got some but they all by accident, every platonic friend i got, is someone i was trying to f*ck, i made a wrong turn somewhere and ended up in the friend zone!"

Lol.. so fear not Val, we're all in the same shonky boat.

 

[bubble_tea]

better than having every guy friend being friendly with you just so they can ask you out

 

[val_dramaqueen]

ohhhhhh this... jeez, many people can relate to you girly!
Even Seinfeld tackled this - the "friend" zone, actually Chris ROck did too -

"Women get to have platonic friends...Men dont have platonic friends, okay, we just have women we havent F*cked YET!
As soon as i figure this out, im in there!
Look, we, i mean , i got some platonic friends, but ohhhh no, i got some but they all by accident, every platonic friend i got, is someone i was trying to f*ck, i made a wrong turn somewhere and ended up in the friend zone!"

Lol.. so fear not Val, we're all in the same shonky boat.

hehehehehe, nice work... lol
i spose so... but it sure is crap though! still.. could be worse... could have NO friends! *gasp*

 

[eLmo]

I would advise against making moves on friends esp really good friends.. now that I think back it seems like such a stupid thing to do - I lost a very good friend, and even when it ended we still said "lets just be friends again" .. but yeh it never really turned out like that..

 

[val_dramaqueen]

I would advise against making moves on friends esp really good friends.. now that I think back it seems like such a stupid thing to do - I lost a very good friend, and even when it ended we still said "lets just be friends again" .. but yeh it never really turned out like that..

damn....
**note to self* get over best friend*

 

[lengstar]

better than having every guy friend being friendly with you just so they can ask you out

haha i know a girl in that situation. she lost all her guy friends when she recently broke up and they all asked her out. i promised i wouldn't hit on her.

 

[Lexicographer]

Always just "a nice guy", never anything more.

Village Monk all over again.

 

[mack]

The worst thing about that "nice guy" stage is that it is a brick wall. You can go no further.

 

[withoutaface]

The worst thing about that "nice guy" stage is that it is a brick wall. You can go no further.

:uhhuh:This man speaks the truth!:uhhuh:

 

[AsyLum]

"nice guy" stage, ahh the stage i love. (not)

 

[thejosiekiller]

the friend zone

god i think ive been living there for quite a while now- but how do u jump over that brick wall?? cause it kills u when u realise u want a friend to be something more and u cant do anything about it

damn hot kiwi chicks will be the end of me

 

[hipsta_jess]

don't worry, im the mate too.

 

[thejosiekiller]

don't worry, im the mate too.

it seems like every1 is? how unfair