ur_inner_child
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I think I just got social amnesia or something, but I'm finding it particularly difficult at the moment to be GENUINE friends with people who don't share any mutual friends with you. Must we all roll around in semi-incestuous groups?
For instance (many instances now), I make a friend (usually a guy) at uni who I share a class with for a semester. I want to take this person out because they seem hella fun, but I know they'll be reluctant to because they wouldn't know anyone or that it would be kinda the wrong message if it's one on one.
I think the hugest problem is the fact that they're the opposite sex. I can't take them out as one person to an outing with a group of people, without him or them thinking suspicious ways. But then I can never get to know this person well. We stay stupid facebook friends. I have 200+ friends on facebook, and I swear, a third/half of them probably fit this situation.
There's this one friend at uni who I get along with heaps, and next class, I just want to beg him to not graduate this year, as I have not gotten to know him well enough yet. We only have 4 weeks left of uni.
And because this has happened so many times before, I'm actually really sad about it. And I just know that we'll never see each other again after this year ends.
I'm just sick of making friends who are only for fun, rather than creating lasting friendships.
Thoughts/advice/empatheticness.
For instance (many instances now), I make a friend (usually a guy) at uni who I share a class with for a semester. I want to take this person out because they seem hella fun, but I know they'll be reluctant to because they wouldn't know anyone or that it would be kinda the wrong message if it's one on one.
I think the hugest problem is the fact that they're the opposite sex. I can't take them out as one person to an outing with a group of people, without him or them thinking suspicious ways. But then I can never get to know this person well. We stay stupid facebook friends. I have 200+ friends on facebook, and I swear, a third/half of them probably fit this situation.
There's this one friend at uni who I get along with heaps, and next class, I just want to beg him to not graduate this year, as I have not gotten to know him well enough yet. We only have 4 weeks left of uni.
I'm just sick of making friends who are only for fun, rather than creating lasting friendships.
Thoughts/advice/empatheticness.