PIP survey females to answer please!!! (1 Viewer)

[Codename_Alpha]

hey if your female please answer these questions for my PIP on the influence of the father on the socialisation of girls.

Gender:
[ ] Male [ ] Female

Age:
[ ] Below 12 [ ] 12 – 14 [ ] 15 – 17 [ ] 18+

What type of family do you live in?
[ ] Nuclear
[ ] Single parent (mother)
[ ] Single parent (father)
[ ] Blended
[ ] Live with carer
[ ] Other (please specify)

What is your mother’s cultural background?

What is your father’s cultural background?

WHAT IS YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARDS MARRIAGE, CHILDREN, DRUGS (LEGAL AND ILLEGAL) AND SEX.
DO YOU FEEL YOUR IDEAS ARE INFLUENCED BY YOUR PEER GROUP.
PLEASE EXPLAIN YOUR ANSWERS

THANKS

 

[*girl04*]

weird topic! i dont know of anyone doing of before.

Gender:
[ [ ] Female

[ ] 15 – 17 [

What type of family do you live in?
[ ] Nuclear
[

What is your mother’s cultural background?
australian
What is your father’s cultural background?
australian
WHAT IS YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARDS MARRIAGE, CHILDREN, DRUGS (LEGAL AND ILLEGAL) AND SEX.
shouldnt have sex before marraige
illegal drus are bad, legal drugs shouldnt be mis used.
DO YOU FEEL YOUR IDEAS ARE INFLUENCED BY YOUR PEER GROUP
nope, i have my own ideas, i dont go woth the flow.
PLEASE EXPLAIN YOUR ANSWERS

THANKS

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[Kulazzi]

Gender:
[~] Female

Age:
[~] 15 – 17

What type of family do you live in?
[~] Blended


What is your mother’s cultural background? Indian

What is your father’s cultural background? Bangladeshi

WHAT IS YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARDS MARRIAGE, CHILDREN, DRUGS (LEGAL AND ILLEGAL) AND SEX.

My attitude, more like belief, towards marriage is that it's done traditionally which I think is good because it is the continuity of my background/culture. However marriages occurring in the "Hollywood" Industry (especially concerning britney) is kinda stupid cos it keeps going on and off which I think is dumb.

My attitude towards children........(never have a little sister j/ks)...........well...........i love baby children but not the pesty 7 - 11 year olds b/c they get on my nerves....

My attitude towards illegal drugs is that obviously, it should never be used because it is illegal of course and is bad for your health

Legal drugs should be used correctly (as girl04 pointed out ) i.e. no overdose or anything like that

My attitude towards legal sex is......well firstly I think sex is only legal when u r married and do intercourse with your one and only partner and I think thats a good thing cos ur not having any affairs or anything.

My attitude towards illegal sex is of course disgust b/c ummm......well it's illegal of course and that includes having affairs.......

DO YOU FEEL YOUR IDEAS ARE INFLUENCED BY YOUR PEER GROUP
Only a little because all of them are good christians.......but mostly through my parents.

 

[ColMackenzie]

ur questionnaire

Gender:
[ ] Male [ ~] Female

Age:
[ ] Below 12 [ ] 12 – 14 [ ] 15 – 17 [~ ] 18+

What type of family do you live in?
[~ ] Nuclear
[ ] Single parent (mother)
[ ] Single parent (father)
[ ] Blended
[ ] Live with carer
[ ] Other (please specify)

What is your mother’s cultural background?
white south africa
What is your father’s cultural background?
white south african
WHAT IS YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARDS MARRIAGE, CHILDREN, DRUGS (LEGAL AND ILLEGAL) AND SEX.
Marriage is something special u do if u want to, and childrne are too. illegal drugs are shit and legal, if in moderation are good. Sex is personal choice
DO YOU FEEL YOUR IDEAS ARE INFLUENCED BY YOUR PEER GROUP.
No, I have my own ideas even though my friends try to influence me and ignore my opinions sometimes
PLEASE EXPLAIN YOUR ANSWERS

 

[nessie_lee]

] Gender:
Female

Age:
[ ] 15 – 17 [ ] 18+

What type of family do you live in?

[ ] Single parent (mother)

What is your mother’s cultural background? Yugoslavian

What is your father’s cultural background? German

WHAT IS YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARDS MARRIAGE, CHILDREN, DRUGS (LEGAL AND ILLEGAL) AND SEX.
DO YOU FEEL YOUR IDEAS ARE INFLUENCED BY YOUR PEER GROUP.
PLEASE EXPLAIN YOUR ANSWERS

I'm a christian, so a lot of my stance's on things are because of what i believe in. I'm a believer in 'no sex b4 marriage', and stuff like that. Not a fan of drugs, because they're not me. I have seen too many people get stuffed up by using them. I don't drink because of a committment, and i have no desire either. I figure there are better ways to have fun, than to get blind drunk, and have no control over your actions, i find that bit scary, not knowing what ur doing eg. one of my friends ages ago ran down the street screaming thinking there was someone chasing him (there wasn't)..
I don't feel influenced by my peer group at all, except by my stronger stance on drugs. I am my own person, with my own beliefs which i stick by, i hope if anything i influence them, in a good way. I'm not saying i'm 'it' or anything, coz i'm not, we all stuff up, including me

 

[beergirl]

Gender:
[ ] Female

Age:
15 – 17

What type of family do you live in?
[ ] Nuclear


What is your mother’s cultural background?
indonesian

What is your father’s cultural background?
indonesian

WHAT IS YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARDS MARRIAGE, CHILDREN, DRUGS (LEGAL AND ILLEGAL) AND SEX.
marriage: its a lifelong commitment, where you stay true to your partner.
children: i guess im against children out of wedlock. parents should be commited to their children, they are people and shouldnt be neglected
drugs: legal medicine is ok. alcohol well yeah its youre own choice, smoking nope dont approve. Illegal: personally against them, but in the end its your body and if u want to stuff it up
sex: when ur ready, ur ready
DO YOU FEEL YOUR IDEAS ARE INFLUENCED BY YOUR PEER GROUP.
peers have an influence to an extent, like with drugs and perhaps sex. But in the end its your own decision, your own life

 

[alby]

Gender:
Female

Age:
15 – 17

What type of family do you live in?
Nuclear

What is your mother’s cultural background?
Dutch

What is your father’s cultural background?
Aussie

WHAT IS YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARDS MARRIAGE, CHILDREN, DRUGS (LEGAL AND ILLEGAL) AND SEX.
marriage - not too young (under 18), but as long as both partners are ready & not doin it for reasons other than they love eachother (eg. kids)
kids - dont wanna have em yet (dunno when i will), but im fine bout having kids round me (i babysit a fair bit)
drugs - not really a fan (i guess ciggies/alcohol's ok, they're socially accepted..but not excessively)....but i guess its a personal decision whether u do them or not
personally, not ready...socially, ok as long as they (usually guys) dont flaunt it heaps ("im macho/the best cuz i got xyz number of chicks in bed")...but i dun see the use in havin sex heaps young (under bout 15-16..im the same with dating i guess)

DO YOU FEEL YOUR IDEAS ARE INFLUENCED BY YOUR PEER GROUP.
kinda....i have m8s on both sides - some are all religious n dont believe in underage sex, etc; n theres some who have dated heapsa ppl, arent virgins, smoke/get stoned/drink often...
i think personal decisions/attitudes are more influenced by family, experiences (other ppl's or personal) & sometimes culture/religion (all depends how much they're in your life/family/peer group)

 

[canisay_Elvis]

Gender:
Female

Age:
15 – 17

What type of family do you live in?
Other: 2 households, live with mum one week, dad the next.

What is your mother’s cultural background?
Australian (Family originated in england)

What is your father’s cultural background?
New Zealand

WHAT IS YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARDS MARRIAGE, CHILDREN, DRUGS (LEGAL AND ILLEGAL) AND SEX.
Marraige is something that happens if it happens. I'm not fussed about a peice of paper, but if my partner really wanted to be married, I would be happy to do so. I Love children and will no doubt have kids of my own and probably adopt. I dont think it matters at all if a child is born out of wedlock. Personally, I dont mind drugs like pot and tobacco, but when chemicals become involved i get scared off. I dont like the idea of a small pill affecting your mind in such a big way. I dont Mind other people doing it, It's just something i wouldn't do for myself. Sex is a pleasure! but something not to be messed with, pregnancy and sti's are scary. I dont think you can put an age on when you are "ready" for it, it comes when it comes. But i do think it's something you enjoy with someone you know well. I dont think it's smart to have sex with just anybody.
DO YOU FEEL YOUR IDEAS ARE INFLUENCED BY YOUR PEER GROUP.
PLEASE EXPLAIN YOUR ANSWERS
Not dramatically. Marraige and children are things that will happen in MY life, when I will have lost contact with most of my peer group. Drugs is something i have my own opinion on. Most of my friends are taking drugs. They have their opinions and i have mine, and we all respect that. Sex is also a personal thing. I havn't been affected by my friends sexual activity, i had sex with my boyfriend when we were ready and my friends did/will do the same.
My personal opinions are based mainly on my experiences and understandings of situations.

 

[LVB]

Gender:
[ ] Male [ x] Female

Age:
[ ] Below 12 [ ] 12 – 14 [ x] 15 – 17 [ ] 18+

What type of family do you live in?
[ x] Nuclear
[ ] Single parent (mother)
[ ] Single parent (father)
[ ] Blended
[ ] Live with carer
[ ] Other (please specify)

What is your mother’s cultural background?
My mother moved to Australia when she was 8yo from Macedonia with her sister, mother and father. She has lived here ever since, speaks perfect English and is a teacher.

What is your father’s cultural background?
My father came to Australia when he was three with his mother and father and has lived here since then. Both parents still speak their first language and adopt their old customs.

WHAT IS YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARDS MARRIAGE, CHILDREN, DRUGS (LEGAL AND ILLEGAL) AND SEX.

marriage- i believe marriage should be from love which is why i believe in divorce because people sometimes fall out of love. marriage should be taken seriously and i frown upon people who marry for reasons other than love. inter-racial marriages make me happy because they usually have a stronger love bond

children- children need to be respected and cared for by their parents. neglect makes me feel physically ill. if you do not want children, dont have them is my motto. children should never be used as leverage or for personal gain

drugs- trying them once is alright but people who allow themselves to be addicted when they specifically know its bad news. i do not feel sorry for drug addicts. legal drugs are ok when taken seriously. i think people take legal drugs for granted and take them when they dont need 2

sex- the first time should be out of love otherwise its awful. sex can make people lose self-respect and general respect and it should not be taken lightly

DO YOU FEEL YOUR IDEAS ARE INFLUENCED BY YOUR PEER GROUP.

as an extremely extroverted character i'd say no. if i feel my peer group are doing something i do not approve of, i speak up. i left my best friend because she began to lose self-respect and get drunk all the time and i will simply not put up with it. also, another one of my friends tried 2 get me to smoke when i was tipsy and i outright told her off. if anything, i influence people to think like i do
PLEASE EXPLAIN YOUR ANSWERS

 

[porge]

Gender:
Female

Age:
15 – 17

What type of family do you live in?
Nuclear

What is your mother’s cultural background?
aussie (fam originated in england)

What is your father’s cultural background?
polish, lived for a lil bit in israel

WHAT IS YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARDS MARRIAGE, CHILDREN, DRUGS (LEGAL AND ILLEGAL) AND SEX.
marriage - ye, if you wanna spend the rest of ur life with the person, then do it. make sure its love not lust
kids - not something im thinknig bout right now, would be ncie one day
drugs - i got no beef with drugs. i odnt like taking legal drugs very much, tho i do take some vit supplements to help me cope with yr 12 n stress
sex - wouldnt like to do it till marriage, but ill probs end up a hypocrite

DO YOU FEEL YOUR IDEAS ARE INFLUENCED BY YOUR PEER GROUP.
- probably, im pretty extroverted and i believe what i wanna beliee, but then how much of what i just sed was because my friends think the same way.. bit of a conundrum really innit

 

[jarding432]

Gender:
[ ] Male [x] Female

Age:
[ ] Below 12 [ ] 12 – 14 [x] 15 – 17 [ ] 18+

What type of family do you live in?
[x] Nuclear
[ ] Single parent (mother)
[ ] Single parent (father)
[ ] Blended
[ ] Live with carer
[ ] Other (please specify)

What is your mother’s cultural background? Aussie

What is your father’s cultural background? Aussie

WHAT IS YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARDS MARRIAGE, CHILDREN, DRUGS (LEGAL AND ILLEGAL) AND SEX.
Marriage - only if u want to and are in love, if not don't get married
Children - good, if ur married and are capable of looking after them
Drugs - legal: smoking and drinking r ok, if in moderation, illegal: ur just stupid if u use them
Sex - fine if it's with ur husband/wife, I don't believe in sex before marriage
DO YOU FEEL YOUR IDEAS ARE INFLUENCED BY YOUR PEER GROUP.
Not really, these ideas r my own, but i guess there are a number of influences like religion, upbringing etc.

 

[astro]

Gender:
Female

Age:
15-17

What type of family do you live in?
Nuclear


What is your mother’s cultural background? Chinese

What is your father’s cultural background? Chinese

WHAT IS YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARDS MARRIAGE, CHILDREN, DRUGS (LEGAL AND ILLEGAL) AND SEX.
DO YOU FEEL YOUR IDEAS ARE INFLUENCED BY YOUR PEER GROUP.
PLEASE EXPLAIN YOUR ANSWERS

Well i that marriage is not always built on love...but through trust and respect...love may come afterwards....children i suppose are important to carry on for the next generation....drugs (illegal), well they're illegal so that sort of speaks for itself, legal drugs are okay.....Sex - it shouldn't be pressured, only down when both parties are ready and prepared for consequences....some of my ideas can be influenced by my peers - but not the majority of them....

 

[tali_sarah]

Gender:
[ ] Male [x] Female

Age:
[ ] Below 12 [ ] 12 – 14 [ ] 15 – 17 [x] 18+

What type of family do you live in?
[ ] Nuclear
[x] Single parent (mother)
[ ] Single parent (father)
[ ] Blended
[ ] Live with carer
[ ] Other (please specify)

What is your mother’s cultural background?
Australian

What is your father’s cultural background?
Australian

WHAT IS YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARDS MARRIAGE, CHILDREN, DRUGS (LEGAL AND ILLEGAL) AND SEX.
DO YOU FEEL YOUR IDEAS ARE INFLUENCED BY YOUR PEER GROUP.

Marriage - I personally feel that marriage is often used and abused. It's an equal partnership and individuals can forget this. I however, have no doubt that it can work - and work well.

Children - not overly fond of them myself. They're all very cute when they're small and adorable and you can give them back after a visit. But hey, if you want them and are capable of looking after them both emotionally and financially - go for it.

Drugs - also not overly fond of them. But hey, I have nothing against legal drugs, just use them responsibly people.

Sex- I have nothing against sex before marriage. There just needs to be mutual respect and hopefully love there.

I have no doubt that my ideas are influenced by my peer group to an extent. However, I am extremely stubborn and won't do anything I don't want to, you'd have a pretty hard time changing my mind if it was already made up. Essentially isn't everyone influenced by society in some way be it your peer group, family or media ect?