thanks for all who helped me. im doing this pip on deathv cause my dad died when i was 6 and my best friends brother last year in a car accident when they ran in to a truck.
below is the questionnaire
Questionnaire.
How you coped with death.
Responders will be kept anonymous for ethical reasons.
Please try to answer as many questions as you can.
Your name:
Age:
Gender:
Remembering who your loved one was:
Their name and age:
What do you miss about them?
What dont you miss about them?
What happened to them:
How old were you when they passed away?
Where, when, and how did it happen?
How did you find out and who told you?
Do you remember the day?
(What happened day and night?)
Process of mourning:
What were your first reactions after you were told they had gone?
Did you attend the funeral?
At the funeral - What was it like?
- How did you feel?
- How were you treated?
How did your friends act compared to how you wanted them to act?
What did they say that encourage you?
What did they say that discouraged you?
How long did it take you overcome the grief, or are you still mourning?
Have you visited the grave or where the ashes were scattered?
Do you feel guilty in any way because your loved has died and you were left behind?
What did you do after the death? (Eg. Moved home or made a scrap book.
Is there something that triggers your memory of the person?
What is it?
(eg. A song or poem [if possible please include.])
Do you believe that you will see your lost one again?
Does it make you excited?
What feelings did you come across and how did you act and how did you move on?
Denial
Shock
Anger (at who)
Bargaining
Guilt (at who)
Depression
Loneliness
Acceptance
Hope
Sadness
Helplessness
Anxiety
Confusion
Numb
Fearful
Empty
Despaired
Pessimistic
Irritable
Restless
Loss of concentration, motivation, energy
Changes in appetite, sleeping patterns, sex drive
Fatigue
Error prone
Punished yourself
Suicidal
Alcohol
Smoking
Drugs
Become sick (what with)
Any others?
Other comments?
