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Why are many teen girls afraid to have sex? (1 Viewer)

darksouljah

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Many girls I know dont even bother trying sex
I dont know why
I know it feels good but i dont know why they afraid to try it
I know if the protection isnt strong enough, the girl will probably get preganant.

I want you guys idea, on why they afraid of not having it.

ty pplz
 

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there's no way you will get a conclusive answer on this in an internet forum.
sex is a huge thing for many people - the want of committment, love, or for religious reasons. it could be apprehension because of the idea of pregnancy. it could be one of a billion reasons.
its a personal thing.
 

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try sticking a cucumber up your nostril, and let someone wiggle it around for a while

9 months later, imagine pushing a crying pooping expensive watermelon out of that very nostril..

:/
 

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Skeeta said:
try sticking a cucumber up your nostril, and let someone wiggle it around for a while

9 months later, imagine pushing a crying pooping expensive watermelon out of that very nostril..

:/
Your br's penis looks like a cucumber?
:\
 

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darksouljah said:
Many girls I know dont even bother trying sex
I dont know why
I know it feels good but i dont know why they afraid to try it
I know if the protection isnt strong enough, the girl will probably get preganant.

I want you guys idea, on why they afraid of not having it.

ty pplz
afraid of not having it? lol


obviously, having sex for the first time is scary.
it might hurt ><

sex = :eek:
 

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UnIqUe_PrInCeSs said:
afraid of not having it? lol


obviously, having sex for the first time is scary.
it might hurt ><

sex = :eek:
Do not deny it, please share your experience in this vast internet community of hundreds of members ...

EDIT: Make sure your 1000th post is your experience of sexual intercourse or pleasure of any kind ...
 

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f3nr15 said:
Do not deny it, please share your experience in this vast internet community of hundreds of members ...

EDIT: Make sure your 1000th post is your experience of sexual intercourse or pleasure of any kind ...
but I'm a virgin :confused: :eek:
for real.


EDIT: ok I lied.
Sex is awesome. You should try it sometime, kid.

omgomgomgomg this was my 1000th post :eek:
 

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Skeeta said:
try sticking a cucumber up your nostril, and let someone wiggle it around for a while

9 months later, imagine pushing a crying pooping expensive watermelon out of that very nostril..

:/
As a teen boy, I'm afraid of having sex because it'd be like 'try sticking a toothpick up your nostril and let someone wiggle it around for 10 seconds'.
 

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Some girls may not feel emotionally ready, they may not be mature enough, not know if they love their partner or have reglious values or something. Other girls fear the pain (for most girls it does hurt). I had fears of performance, insecurity of body, not sure if emotionally ready, potential pregnancy etc... often it is a combination of many things. Don't push it and talk to her about it, often just talking makes both parties feel better, especially if both are worried about the same thing.
 

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darksouljah said:
Many girls I know dont even bother trying sex
I dont know why
I know it feels good but i dont know why they afraid to try it
I know if the protection isnt strong enough, the girl will probably get preganant.

I want you guys idea, on why they afraid of not having it.

ty pplz
Im a guy here so i shouldnt be commenting lol as theres no way ill ever understand the complex mind of females but id say its because they simply dont feel the need to have sex. As a guy its percieved that if your having sex your like a complete stud when your around your mates therefore i believe guys want to have sex because of the stigma attacted by guys plus we also have testostorone. Generally speaking girls are usually more interested in friendship or "cute" actions ie kissing,holding hands, cuddling ect.Basically i dont think girls are afraid of the acutal sex part i think theyre concerned about being hurt emotionally and having sex with someone opens you up to being hurt quite badly because of emotinally attactment. This could be complete non-sense lol but ohh well i tried to give you a good answer
 

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That's bullshit most girls on my msn starting from 15 onwords have had sex.
 

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ermm may be they havent found the "right guy"? itll be their first time, they want it to be special and with the right person.
 

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vern said:
That's bullshit most girls on my msn starting from 15 onwords have had sex.
maybe its just saying something about the 15 year olds you have on your msn list

:ninja:
 

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UnIqUe_PrInCeSs said:
um, why'd you have to quote me like that :confused:

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It's about time pythagoras' triangular testicles fucked off, now it is your turn ...

EDIT: Don't worry now, I found a new idiot who attempts to show off his vast knowledge of IT
 
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There's a difference between being afraid and "don't want to" have sex, so I guess the reason for being actually afraid has to be the fear of pain.

P.S. Man I still feel so innocent, for all I know, I still am - I've had a tiny sip of it, next time, which isn't going to be for a long time, I'll take a loooong swig.
 

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