Wedding Thread (3 Viewers)

[zombie omie jay]

what is with people wanting to be 'set for life'

what is the point in that if you arent doing something with your life, how boring. wasting your life

 

[zombie omie jay]

You live with your husband for 15 years. You worked your ass off establishing where you are today. All of a sudden, he wants a divorce or something. Does this mean you're left with nothing?
You worked just as hard as he did, so you deserve half of it.

do you understand the concept of a prenup

edit: a lot of the time you didnt work as hard as he did lol

i would stipulate that in the case of a divorce, assets in my name before marriage remain mine, and for assets gained since marriage, income be calculated and assets divided according to income ratios

sounds fair

i make $800k in the 10yrs, she makes $600k, we split the joint assets 57/43

 

[anne1010]

You live with your husband for 15 years. You worked your ass off establishing where you are today. All of a sudden, he wants a divorce or something. Does this mean you're left with nothing?
You worked just as hard as he did, so you deserve half of it.

exactly. he may have worked hard bringing in the money, but she worked just as hard raising the kids (assuming she was a stay at home mum). different type of work but equally as important. she shouldnt be left with nothing. or even he if he becomes a stay at home dad.

 

[katie tully]

You live with your husband for 15 years. You worked your ass off establishing where you are today. All of a sudden, he wants a divorce or something. Does this mean you're left with nothing?
You worked just as hard as he did, so you deserve half of it.

um so get a pre nup saying that in the event of a divorce, assets are to be split equally

dude it's not just about making sure the dude gets to keep his money - say you become the higher income earner of the family and you contribute financially in a higher capacity than he does, when you split up do you want him to be able to take more than his reasonable share?

 

[anne1010]

what is with people wanting to be 'set for life'

what is the point in that if you arent doing something with your life, how boring. wasting your life

how does being set for life no mean youre doing anything with your life?

 

[zombie omie jay]

exactly. he may have worked hard bringing in the money, but she worked just as hard raising the kids (assuming she was a stay at home mum). different type of work but equally as important. she shouldnt be left with nothing. or even he if he becomes a stay at home dad.

yeah that is calculated on an hourly rate
8hrs a day at $10 an hr etc for 10yrs

income ratio

 

[zombie omie jay]

how does being set for life no mean youre doing anything with your life?

in the case of being a housewife

trophy wife even

no career etc just living through your husband, as an extension of him. completely reliant.

 

[ZombieApocalypse]

do you understand the concept of a prenup

edit: a lot of the time you didnt work as hard as he did lol

i would stipulate that in the case of a divorce, assets in my name before marriage remain mine, and for assets gained since marriage, income be calculated and assets divided according to income ratios

sounds fair

i make $800k in the 10yrs, she makes $600k, we split the joint assets 57/43

I don't know about that

that sounds fair to me

exactly. he may have worked hard bringing in the money, but she worked just as hard raising the kids (assuming she was a stay at home mum). different type of work but equally as important. she shouldnt be left with nothing. or even he if he becomes a stay at home dad.

my thoughts exactly haha

um so get a pre nup saying that in the event of a divorce, assets are to be split equally

dude it's not just about making sure the dude gets to keep his money - say you become the higher income earner of the family and you contribute financially in a higher capacity than he does, when you split up do you want him to be able to take more than his reasonable share?

didn't think it that way.


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I pose a question to you all: Say you're in love with this dude/chick and you want to marry him/her. He/she makes you sign a prenup saying if you get divorced, he/she gets everything including the kids. Would you still marry him? He/she is the love of your life btw.

 

[anne1010]

yeah that is calculated on an hourly rate
8hrs a day at $10 an hr etc for 10yrs

income ratio

so whose to put a price on the job it takes to raise kids?
its purely judgmental. i dont think you can put a price on raising kids.

also, a prenup would make each partner always have their guard up in their marriage. its like a constant contest. "shit if he starts making more money then me and divorces me, i wont be able to afford this lifestyle ive been living for the past 10 years. i better start working longer hours so get a promo even if that puts strain on my relationship"

 

[zombie omie jay]

lol the majority of women let men define them and their life
hilarious

 

[zombie omie jay]

I don't know about that

that sounds fair to me


my thoughts exactly haha

didn't think it that way.


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I pose a question to you all: Say you're in love with this dude/chick and you want to marry him/her. He/she makes you sign a prenup saying if you get divorced, he/she gets everything including the kids. Would you still marry him? He/she is the love of your life btw.

no because im not a moron and they obviously dont love me or they wouldnt put me in that situation

dodged a bullet etc

 

[anne1010]

I pose a question to you all: Say you're in love with this dude/chick and you want to marry him/her. He/she makes you sign a prenup saying if you get divorced, he/she gets everything including the kids. Would you still marry him? He/she is the love of your life btw.

hell to the no. esp the kids part. he wouldnt be the love of my life if that thought crossed his mind.

 

[anne1010]

lol the majority of women let men define them and their life
hilarious

alot do. and their usually the ones that complain about double standards yet are the reason for them.

 

[katie tully]

I pose a question to you all: Say you're in love with this dude/chick and you want to marry him/her. He/she makes you sign a prenup saying if you get divorced, he/she gets everything including the kids. Would you still marry him? He/she is the love of your life btw.

hahahaha the dumbest, most naive question - typical for a 12 year old.

really though, does anyone actually know of people like this who exist? don't sign the pre nup, dont marry them and dont have kids with them

i mean use your brain, if somebody present this to you it'd be a pretty good early warning indicator to gtfo

 

[zombie omie jay]

so whose to put a price on the job it takes to raise kids?
its purely judgmental. i dont think you can put a price on raising kids.

also, a prenup would make each partner always have their guard up in their marriage. its like a constant contest. "shit if he starts making more money then me and divorces me, i wont be able to afford this lifestyle ive been living for the past 10 years. i better start working longer hours so get a promo even if that puts strain on my relationship"

the people within the relationship obviously
come to an agreement on the value of raising the kids between yourself

you can put a price on anything lol being a parent/raising kids =/= being a stay at home mum for 18yrs etc lol what a cop out

why is that any different to a normal outcome

bloke working has to constantly worry that if he finds out his misses is rooting his best mate behind his back he will lose his house and 80% of his income until the kids are 18 etc lol

 

[katie tully]

you guys have a pretty retarded understanding of how shit actually works ~in the real world~

 

[zombie omie jay]

i dont even want to get married ugh what a waste

100% get a prenup though, if only to protect my currents assets

 

[anne1010]

the people within the relationship obviously
come to an agreement on the value of raising the kids between yourself

you can put a price on anything lol being a parent/raising kids =/= being a stay at home mum for 18yrs etc lol what a cop out

why is that any different to a normal outcome

bloke working has to constantly worry that if he finds out his misses is rooting his best mate behind his back he will lose his house and 80% of his income until the kids are 18 etc lol

lol all i ahve to ssay is if you think she may possibly root ur best mate or anyone for that matter, dont marry her.

 

[katie tully]

okay scenario for you tards

consider this (actually happened)

this guy was a doctor specialising in some shit and idk making a couple of million dollars a year. anyway he had a break down and decided to go and work for some charity for 40k a year. his wife was like !~fuck dat111~ and divorced him, and put a claim in for alimony based on his capacity to earn, not his actual earnings.

the judge ruled that because he had the capacity to earn x million dollars but only chose to earn 40k was no excuse and originally ruled that the guy pay is retarded x wife some astronomical amount of cash dollars per month



what do u arse clowns think of this scenario

 

[zombie omie jay]

of course you wouldnt marry someone if you thought they may root your best mate lol that but no one ever gets into a relationship expecting their s/o to cheat on them yet it still happens in a very large amount of relationshipsss

cmon