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ye most of the time its probably not possible

did ur ex check if the grass was greener on the other side then fuck up lmfao
lmao they didn't fuck up in any sense
we were just incompatible asf and I don't think I loved him I just loved the attention, crazy

I ended up self destructing in a lot of ways bcz nothing mattered anymore except him, which is NOT how a healthy relationship works

if a relationship makes you lose yourself, ur friends ur hobbies your studies mental health then u need to leave immediately
 

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also, while we're all here, do you consider this a red flag :
- keeping friends of the opposite gender
not rly but in rare cases friends can push boundaries that interfere in the relo
this is less prevalent in one gender schools right>?
(not gay ^ qn is ppl avoid relationships well in one gender schools bc they dont interact w the other gender as often^)
not necessarily though maybe more likely with tate n stuff
 

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lmao they didn't fuck up in any sense
we were just incompatible asf and I don't think I loved him I just loved the attention, crazy

I ended up self destructing in a lot of ways bcz nothing mattered anymore except him, which is NOT how a healthy relationship works

if a relationship makes you lose yourself, ur friends ur hobbies your studies mental health then u need to leave immediately
yup happened to me

but it was weird bc we were supposed to be friends so thats a whole mental breakdown right there
 

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lmao they didn't fuck up in any sense
we were just incompatible asf and I don't think I loved him I just loved the attention, crazy

I ended up self destructing in a lot of ways bcz nothing mattered anymore except him, which is NOT how a healthy relationship works

if a relationship makes you lose yourself, ur friends ur hobbies your studies mental health then u need to leave immediately
what do you do if you're on the receiving end of that like the other person
how do you let them down without destroying them
 
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what do you do if you're on the receiving end of that like the other person
how do you let them down without destroying them
honestly that was the least of my concerns, bcz the relationship was incredibly damaging for me and for my own sake I had to cut the person off once and for all
 

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honestly that was the least of my concerns, bcz the relationship was incredibly damaging for me and for my own sake I had to cut the person off once and for all
yea, it might seem harsh but if someone has been selfish for the entire (or most) duration of the relationship, you have every right to be that little bit more selfish and end things in a way you feel is best

possibly, it could also bring down their inflated ego and teach them a thing or two
 

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