ok honey youre on the right track, the way to go is to think pink!
the point is to make it pretty and blinding and even better should be, oh....just glamourous!
remember any darks are a big no-no, you dont want to be all doom and gloom.
like really warm, bright or pretty colours should be used like red, orange, yellow, pink, really those two colours stand out most.
if you just want to wow and blind people use especially bright colours pink or yellow like mine make it your dominant profile colour and make more mellow colours like green to form the minor parts of your profile.
dont forget to change the font to something different, you dont want blocky boring old plain text like the standard arial font on the forums, words are an expression of your thoughts!
express them with a pretty font of course!
it all takes trial and error, keep previewing it and you could have ... oh an orgasmically pretty, wonderful, vivacious, flamboyant profile like mine!
(i am talking like gay guy, lol)