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Thanks for your kind words mate. I didn't think I would be talking further than marriage from this thread but I will endevour to answer all of your questions. 1.Yeah I am sure this could happen. But in reality I know I could never live with the guilt of a constant lie with my most loved. A...

Well I know for sure I have the controversial thing going on now :) .It makes me think out logically my reasoning behind all of this, so in that regard thanks guys (and gals) The reason I would be keeping sex until after marriage is because it physically conssumates the marriage. It doesn't...

Do you think it would feel like it made a stonger bond if it had only been with the frist person? Or has it lost it's impact and become "just sex" because it was shared with many?

Surley there is a differance between a living breathing person and an inanimate object such as a piece of fruit?

there is the mis-understanding, I really should have made it a little more clear :( I didn't mean to say that you would think less of the person at all, I mean how could you when they may not have known any better or not held to the same moral values at that time? However, even though they may...

Not always

This may take a while to explain so bare with me. For a start, I would question the chances of a situation occuring where your wife/husband wasn't a virgin. Only because if you are that different in morals I wonder how many people would fall in love, to the point that marriage is a possiblilty...

You gotta' be joking right? Comparing sex to sugar? Sure both are great, but sugar does not bring two people together in anywhere near the capacity that sex does. Also if you are going to marry someone, of course you love them. If love wasn't important then why would you even be getting married?

I've heard a heap of people say that they wish that they had of waited until marriage. Not here on the forums, but people who are married and have the ability to look back on their past as teens (eg. not oursleves). Why the importance? Because sex bonds two people together in a way nothing else...

Me explaining all my values, probably won't make a lot of sense because with your reasoning they seem completely absurd. So to make sure I am not shoving my own values down your throat, I will give a reason that still may make sense. To me when married, not only do the wife and husband realise...

I like the idea too. I only want to be that close and intimate with one person in my life.

lol, if that was a joke

Hell no, not for me. I love my girl too much for that to even be a consideration in my mind. Commitment to one is far better than no commitment to many IMO.

lol, thanks. I think it would still be better to get completely over the person rather than start something new. Maybe that is just me. lol

Same :), Extremely happy

I don't mean this in an offensive way. But could you please explain what it is then? 'Cause I am lost.

Why does marriage mean nothing to you?

How would a relationship formed simply to get over someone ever be a succesfull and completely honest love?

Just wondering, did he give a reason at all?

It doesn't matter to me or not whether the other person is good at it. It's the fact that you have kept yourselves for each other only. That's for me at least. Would you agree that how good each partner is, is something that can be worked on and improved? Also I'm glad there would be no basis...