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Grrr... You missed that you're an asshole Hmpf. LY!

Hehe... ta! ;) I'm just showing my extensive knowledge on all things sexual and kinky.. I personally dont think my suggestion is as bad (or weird, or violating) as AsyLum's! :eek:

Nothing big, just easy, fun things. No movies (because you cant talk and get to know the person, and they're reserved for later on in the relationship when you have nothing to say to them) and no dinners... Maybe lunch, or a coffee after work (taken from experience- it works wonders. And after 3...

Sometimes it is... like if you leave it for years because you both mature during the time apart and you might actually be each others 'one'. But with this kind of situation where you're been apart maybe a month or so, nothing would have changed. If you get back together now, you're just jumping...

Post counts. its probably just mattycos with yet another persona! And, in responce to 2sense, to get even would be to stoop to the same level as him...

To me, and to others who I know on here, think this is what you meant. You didnt define what you meant by future, and only referred to marriage, so really, from my perspective, I put two and two together.... Anyway, thats great. I'm glad you're not signing your life away... yet! ;)

Completely, everyone is entitled to their own opinion, and what you said about not wanting to put energy into something you wont reap benefit out of is exactly the underlying psychological drives in all people in relationships. I just figure that sometimes that's not clear until you find that...

I think SAF are ok for Sam, because everyone uses it and everyone gets their lovely green discount card. But with things like MUSA etc. you should only have to pay if you use their facilities. Maybe its because I'm a female, but I honestly dont care about all this political crap (bar the...

Yeah, but in the process of teaching you what you dont want, its showing you (or at least narrowing down) what you do want. Its a two-way street. And to the first point, it seems like they are taking this pov to a degree (especially Ozgirl.. she says she wants to 'marry' her s/o, and then...

Well, if it was good sex, then it wouldnt be so bad.. like having a heart attack from orgasming too much...

How can someone decide whether they want to marry someone if they havent had a relationship with them? Its through a relationship that you learn such things. Where's the logic...? And Ozgirl, the point is to enjoy life and enjoy a relationship with someone while its good and fun... And its...

hehe! Too funny! A malfunctioning machine... yummmmmmy! :D Being fucked to death wouldnt be so bad...

... Love it! :D But dont you agree it would spice it up?! ;)

^^ agree with Jumb. If you want to be with him, then you have a right to be pissed. But if you were never seriously contemplating taking him back, it doesnt really concern you. I mean, I know that it would get to you, but if you think about it logically, it doesnt really make sense to be...

Handcuff's are kids stuff! If you really want to spice things up, try figging... (pm me if you're interested.. it might disturb some people)...

Girls huh? Well then, I dont feel so special anymore! ;) You'd be surprised as to how many couples have tried it really.. its still has such a social stigma attached to it, and those who say guys who do it have some underlying homosexual desires are just.. well, pathetic. Its nice for them...

It's nicer in person, but I like sms (as I'm sure those who have read the original thread have discovered). I'm sticking to what I said originally: its nice for memories!

No, I like sms's... moreso once you're in the relationship and they send you nice ones. But my s/o still has the first sms I sent to him... I think its cute! (And it gives a date, and I'm quite anal when it comes to dates and anniversaries). Oh, and all the guys I know have crappy memories so...

You're so full of shit. I hate it when people disagree just to be assholes. This is a prime example. Anyway, to the original poster, sms is a fine way of doing it; this way she can keep the message for memories! ;) And I'd say shes just playing it safe. Noone wants to go out with someone...

Generally, I think its all a fluctuation. You start off wanting a relationship so you can have a stable fuck buddy, then, if you have a bad relationship, you only want the fuck bit. So you find a fuck buddy. and then you develop an STD from one of the aformentioned fuck buddies, which makes...