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3rd: know my criteria is just a 'draft' really, when the right girl comes along i'll know. i won't compromise on the first 5, but everything else is fly. and yes, i'm only looking to date to marry now.

I have to disagree with the 'any less of a person'. let's take smoking for instance. unless her mother was smoking and got her addicted when she was in the womb, you'd have to be really really stupid to start smoking in this day and age (that is, 2009, and in sydney, AUstralia) when the effects...

Good question. if we refrain from sex, it'll help us build a more stronger foundation. it'll mean that im not in it just for the sex (which builds trust, loyalty, etc) it'll sort of 'better our moral fibre/ethics'. (which would help in the future) I'd be in a better position with the inlaws...

well no. because we're married. honestly doesn't matter. what matter's is that abstinence happens for OUR relationship till marriage. but really, i would of really hoped that she would of been honest with me.

i guess your criteria is: nice ass nice body? good luck with marriage friend. oh right. you probably won't get married.. you think that marriage is 'old fashioned' when really it's because you don't want to half your shit (beat up ute, with your massive subwoofer) in the probable circumstance...

] lol. haha. look i told you, i'm only not compromising on the first 5. everything else is fine. it doesn't matter if she 'couldn't afford the lessons'. if she's willing to learn, i'll be able to teach her guitar/bass/drums. mm that's true. but when you think about it that 'hollywood goss'...

i've had about 3.. 'fun ones', and 2 serious ones but i do appreciate your sincerity. I do realise that relationships grow with experiences. but i also think that there are different ways. for example, you might meet someone who fits your criteria, and her's yours. you set boundaries for the...

of course not. these are just my high standards. I won't compromise the first 5 or so. everything else is optional. see each 'criteria' or 'little box' as you put it represents a personality trait. for example, an instrument may mean that she's creative/artistic, and that she values life-long...

no, it can be compromised. here are the things that can't be compromised on: a female a non smoker non drinker (you don't drink to get drunk. you might have one or two standard drinks, but rarely) don't take illicit drugs believe in abstinence, and marriage being a life-long thing. everything...

right. fair enough. i've only had a few serious relationships (okay two). but each lasted over a year. (which is pretty good i think) I think when you put sex out of the equation, relationships for the long term are just easier. you should refer to the first post when i say i'd only be dating...

right,, that's enough of the euphemisms. I'lll give you more insight for the particular 'criteria' each criteria represents a personality trait.

sure. if we're both not virgins, and see the importance of abstinence until marriage, that's great. in some circumstances that's better because both of you would understand the importance of it.

1) to see if any of them have any girls that fit the criteria 2) sorry, perhaps i should of been clear. i meant abstinence until marriage. 3) yeahhh. especially when the thing costing $3000 was made in some developing country, where the person was paid maybe $3.

i'll explain the abstinence thing. I'm sure most of you won't agree with me, but to me i make sense. the reason why marriages break down so far these days, is because the two parties (husband, wife) aren't willing to put in the effort. marriages arn't an easy thing to do. now when you think...

haha that's quite funny actually, seeing as how i'm not a virgin

mmm true that. but if you have lots of specifics, then that means when you do meet a girl that has those, it means she's the one ;). I don't think a life-long partner can be compromised. (Well at least in the big points)

I don't hate it, I just don't like it. as in I don't have an opinion about it. I hate gangsta rap though.

haha that's great!. Well i guess if it were all too specific, then it'll be too hard. whereas the general bits are okay for a compromise?

Well good on you for your self-proclaimed greatness. As for the disgracing, I don't see why I have, because i was never in the scene. Now if i were, and i left, then i would of disgraced. either way, you are pretty ignorant.

mmm only a few of them are still alive. It's all a big marketting thing. only thing i like is ralph Lauren polo button ups, polos, and sweaters. pretty much because they were designed by the man himself. now when you think about all those fashion labels with the designers bringing out new...