2 whole years... what to do (1 Viewer)

[ioniser]

ha i was in a similar situation i was gonna ask a grl out at my yr 10 formal.In the end i didn't cause something came to mind

then i got the shits in yr 11 she totally ignored me and made my life hell,thats my worst year no doubt

 

[ioniser]

i think i m on the same boat

i can talk to any random chick except for this 1 chick,man shes playing hard to get, i better crack her shell this week hopefully

 

[blackbunny]

nah man, some people have a certian level of moral fibre - makes them think of consequences. If i'm pretty sure a relationship isnt gonna work then i wont start it, and if a chick asks me out and i find out that we dont work well together then i tell them, i dont wait to get in their pants then drop them.

relationship.... HA

its 21st century, there are no such things as relationships. only hookups exist for me.

 

[FoodForThought]

relationship.... HA

its 21st century, there are no such things as relationships. only hookups exist for me.

each to thier own... i value loyalty slightly higher than about an hours pleasure. Theres nothing wrong with mutual pleasure at a party or something, but if you find someone special stick with them... it'll do you good.

 

[kazan]

relationship.... HA

its 21st century, there are no such things as relationships. only hookups exist for me.

amen, i havent had a relationship in like 3 years, random hook-ups are they way to go.. i look at all my friends with girlfriends/boyfriends and i pity them, if they get in a fight they gotta make up and all that, if a chick has a go at me. i delete her number. problem solved.

 

[jellybeenz]

I was in your position last year, boy came at the beginning of yr 11- I liked him from then all the way through to the end of yr 12. We were somewhat friendly with each other, internet buddies so to speak... I got to the last day of school where we took photos with each other and he wrote a message in my Year 12 book.

The crush continued on until three months ago when I finally let it slip to people that I liked him. All of a sudden, I knew he didnt feel the same way all along and we would never be more than friends. It wasn't devastating and it wasn't that big of a deal, I just kind of go over it. I still consider him a good friend though and me not liking him anymore has made being friends with him so much easier.

So. Moral of the Story. Tell him. I don't know if you have or not yet, if not formal is a good time. It'll make you feel better, whether you get him or not. I think the outcome can only be positive.

 

[jessied]

After reading all that and realising that SCHOOL'S FINISHED, what happened?? Did you tell him how your feel? Did you say nothing? ...

 

[sugar_plum]

i said nothing
im thinking i'll flirt a bit at the formal and after party, but i did suss out that he ahs a thing for one of my friends which is horrble, but either way nothing could ever happen

 

[jellybeenz]

Hah thats funny sugar plum, when I was in almost the exact same position as you- I found out he liked one of my best friends as well, but then it didnt turn out to be anything serious. But as this happened the week of stuvac I was quite devastated- but then again it caused me to study harder coz I had nothing to dream about.

Weird that the situations are so similar.

 

[santaslayer]

Hah thats funny sugar plum, when I was in almost the exact same position as you- I found out he liked one of my best friends as well, but then it didnt turn out to be anything serious. But as this happened the week of stuvac I was quite devastated- but then again it caused me to study harder coz I had nothing to dream about.

Weird that the situations are so similar.

Yeah, then they make movies out of it.

Situations like these aren't uncommon I guess.

It's harder to tell the girl when you do a similar activity (sport) every week and share the same friendship groups.