Advice- Love (1 Viewer)
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virgin^sexy
ctn, t9
write her a note that says 'do you like me? yes/no' and make her tick one.
thejosiekiller
every me
defeat her in a online game of checkers and then ask her to play in real life with some other girls in a mud-wrestling comp
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miesynth
w0rd :uhhuh:thejosiekiller said:
MaryJane
Extraordinary Machine
There are all these purely on-line love triangles going on at the moment! Whats with this?
Truthfully honey, if you only talk to her on-line, I think its a pretty pointless exercise asking whether she likes you or not. If you dont have a relationship off the net, you dont know what a person is like in reality. I know a lot of people who I get on fine with on the net, but then have nothing to say to them off it.. its horrible and uncomfortable. Or, one time, I met up with a guy who I knew off the net who was really nice, but he was a complete prick in real-life. Either meet up with her and see how it goes (and if it goes well pursue it), but if you cant meet her ever, theres' seriously no point to a cyber-relationship.. its not going to get you anywhere. Get out there and meet some other nice people who you can interact with on a more social, stable, normal level.
Truthfully honey, if you only talk to her on-line, I think its a pretty pointless exercise asking whether she likes you or not. If you dont have a relationship off the net, you dont know what a person is like in reality. I know a lot of people who I get on fine with on the net, but then have nothing to say to them off it.. its horrible and uncomfortable. Or, one time, I met up with a guy who I knew off the net who was really nice, but he was a complete prick in real-life. Either meet up with her and see how it goes (and if it goes well pursue it), but if you cant meet her ever, theres' seriously no point to a cyber-relationship.. its not going to get you anywhere. Get out there and meet some other nice people who you can interact with on a more social, stable, normal level.
MaryJane
Extraordinary Machine
Oh honey, thats good to hear! I'm glad you know her!!eljay080 said:
Do what Jumb said, ask her out for coffee.. if you're families are good friends, this would be much more acceptable than if you were some random. Just do it, make it just a casual thing... mention it in conversation rather than calling her up to ask her to coffee. even ask her over the net! The worst that can happen is that she says 'no', and you can brush it off because it was just you being a nice friend (so it wont be weird).
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Edit: hehe, ta Argonaut! Thats so cute!
If I'm the doctor, I'm really scared for all the posters out there!.. and I must be starting to show my old age!
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eViLnUt
Cardplayer
hey dats exactly like my situation! apart from the 'live down the road' bit...
http://www.boredofstudies.org/community/showthread.php?t=64094
http://www.boredofstudies.org/community/showthread.php?t=64094
reemz
Member
to eljay
well if u lyk her i rekon get her email and chat 2 her and a lil bit of flirtn neva hurt or if u dont wana do that then start 2 speak 2 her and ask 4 'help' wid stuff and slowly build a relationship, dont rush her. and try 2 be urself not some macho tough dude that only has 'stuff' on his mind. try 2 be sensitive but not 2 emotional.
good luk dude, =)
well if u lyk her i rekon get her email and chat 2 her and a lil bit of flirtn neva hurt or if u dont wana do that then start 2 speak 2 her and ask 4 'help' wid stuff and slowly build a relationship, dont rush her. and try 2 be urself not some macho tough dude that only has 'stuff' on his mind. try 2 be sensitive but not 2 emotional.
good luk dude, =)
MuffinMan
Juno 15/4/08 :)
you should get her ph no since u guys live so close to each other anyway net is pointless since ur so close !!
eViLnUt
Cardplayer
and wat would u call her about?eljay080 said: