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[_random_]

ok heres the situation:

My formal is in around 3 weeks and i dont have a date as yet, i know its late and girls need time to prepare dress etc etc. I have got someone in mind, but i just feel awkward asking her because we are not really close freinds, we just get along well. Anyone advice on how to go about asking?? or anyone in similar situation?

 

[thorrnydevil]

ok heres the situation:

My formal is in around 3 weeks and i dont have a date as yet, i know its late and girls need time to prepare dress etc etc. I have got someone in mind, but i just feel awkward asking her because we are not really close freinds, we just get along well. Anyone advice on how to go about asking?? or anyone in similar situation?

I just didn't go with anyone. If you like someone ask them, if you don't, then don't!

 

[hotcocoababe]

In my experience, asking someone is an ultimatum - if he/she says YES then everythings all good... and possibly BETTER than all good LOL
OR
if he/she says no.. it creates many problems

However, having said that, LIFE is all about living for the moment!!! I'll say, GO FOR IT you have nothing to lose - TRUST ME, there are soooo many other fish in the sea!!!

 

[OZGIRL86]

ok heres the situation:

My formal is in around 3 weeks and i dont have a date as yet, i know its late and girls need time to prepare dress etc etc. I have got someone in mind, but i just feel awkward asking her because we are not really close freinds, we just get along well. Anyone advice on how to go about asking?? or anyone in similar situation?

Just ask, you have nothing to lose, she will either say yes or no. She might already have a dress she can wear.
Just bring up your formal to her in conversation, maybe say something like" My formal is coming up soon, and I wondering if you would like to go with me"? and see what happens from there.

 

[neuro_logik]

I've got my formal soon, and I'm going by myself because I'm a loner, and no womens like me

 

[OZGIRL86]

Theres someone for everyone so dont feel down

 

[_Bushra_]

I've got my formal soon, and I'm going by myself because I'm a loner, and no womens like me

i like you

 

[AsyLum]

I know a guy who found a date within a night of the formal.

 

[iambored]

it's hard but if you are friendly there's no harm in asking, i'm sure she'd be flattered and would love to go to a formal. if she's in year 12 even better because she can just wear the same dress as for her formal. there's nothing to lose if you get he the confidence to ask her.

 

[AsyLum]

Confidence is a great thing when you can muster it up isnt it

 

[azn_boy]

If she dont know many of you friends and you are ONLY friends with her then in your case i wouldnt bother asking. I hate babysitting ppl! Hate me or hate me not that how i am. I would rather spend time with my mates!

 

[gemita]

I think you should go for it. If she says no (which she probably won't - a chance to dress up and go to a better than usual party - yes please!!!) then you will be in the same situation that you are now, ie no date. It's not like you're losing anything. If you're worried about how she'll take it just make it really clear that you're asking as a friend. There's no reason I can see why she wouldn't want to go in that scenario.

 

[virgin^sexy]

just ask
i got invited to a formal by a guy i knew (but not very well) about 2 weeks before it was on
if she says yes she can just ask a friend for a dress or something
it's not that difficult

 

[santaslayer]

I'd ask if she's free on the night first, if she says yes then it indicates two things:

1) she's free...duhhh
2) She didn't say no, which can be a sign of avoidance..

asking that first kind of ''opens her up''....ahaha and it'll be hard for her to reject you because she told you she was available...:uhhuh:





EDIT: Im going to a yr 12 formal again....and im in uni already....yay!!!!! :uhhuh: :uhhuh:

 

[Dougie]

most ppl i know haven't asked ppl late. we all procrastinate, and now hsc is in the way. she'll go, just pick the right time to ask

 

[neuro_logik]

Just walk up to her an say, "My friends call me Nova, as in Casanova"

 

[breaking]

I've got my formal soon, and I'm going by myself because I'm a loner, and no womens like me

loser.....

 

[_random_]

yeh thanks for the advice, i guess im just afraid that she will think im coming on too strong too early by asking her to the formal...which i am haha, although my skill in procrastination isnt helping either...whatever happens, happens.

thanks

 

[iambored]

if you really badly want to ask, do it however you want to (tell her it's as friends whatever think about it) and do it now! it's best to get it over with, the suspense will be over, you'll be either happy or sad but not getting more and more nervous.

 

[Binky]

just do it otherwise you'll never know how she feels about you.
if she says yes then great!! and if she doesn't that's ok too cos there are plenty of girls out there.