Been scared to talk to the one u like?? (1 Viewer)

[sk8ie_boi]

Does dis ever happen to anyone?? .. Are you scared to talk to the one you like? I'm really natural wif talking to total strangers and people dat I know, but like... wen I try to talk to dis girl dat I like, I'd have nothing to talk about, I'd be like so speechless... Normally, shit would jut automatically come out of my head.. and yeah.. but like ... why can't you just be like dat with the one u like? .. I'm not shy or anything, but ... I think you get my point.. so wat can i do about dis?? .. cuz like my friend said, you can't get her unless you make a move... but i'm too scared to.. or more like I don't know how to ... so any advise?? .. or anyone in similar situation as me??

 

[loren14]

ur not scared
ur prolly just nervous...like u dont wanna make a dick of urself. if she likes u, shes prolly nervous as well. mistakes happen and u get over them.
imaging if u accidentally spat on her or sumthing. wait...thats prolly not gonna help u. but yeah....shed prolly just laugh it off
maybe instead of talking t9o her...make her talk to u...ask questions until u get more comfortable with her

 

[sparkl3z]

y? she's not gonna bite your head off.......or is she??

 

[Glenn198718]

man honestly just thin of her as a mate and it will just come out its the only advise i have you mate

 

[SashatheMan]

Dutch Courage.

Have five tequila slammers and then you'll be fine.

yes or 10 shots if you wanna impress her with your puking abilities

 

[julius]

No. I'm not scared of shit because I'm not a gutless faggot.

What the hell is this girl going to do? Lambast you for your lack of skill with the english language?

If you walk up to her and go 'LOL I WUNT DAT TO B WIT CHUU" She will rip off your face no shen.

Grow some testicles, face her, and if she insults you, punch her in the tits.

This is a man who knows his stuff. I should've used your approach in 2001-2002 HAHA!

 

[SuGa BunI =D]

errrrrrr......... if you cant communicate with her, how did you get to know and "like" her??

 

[SuGa BunI =D]

He saw her and thought she was pretty? It doesn't sound like her personality played any role in his attraction.

thats pretty superficial and shallow

his better off wanking to her hawtness cos the perfect illusion > reality (most of the time)

 

[withoutaface]

Just walk up to her, stick it in, and if she likes it you get sex, if she doesnt you get gang raped in jail.
Either way you get some.

 

[Arvin Sloane]

shit would jut automatically come out of my head...

You should get that checked.

 

[santaslayer]

thats pretty superficial and shallow

his better off wanking to her hawtness cos the perfect illusion > reality (most of the time)

how is dat superficial???

 

[loquasagacious]

I think the key is to talk to her as if she was a friend/strager you weren't interested in, this has two advantages:
A)Cuts down your nervousness
B)If she does like you then she likes the real you not a pretend (trying to get laid) you

Oh and as a note the more you talk to girls (including as a distinct sub-section) the easier it gets.

 

[Frigid]

thats pretty superficial and shallow

his better off wanking to her hawtness cos the perfect illusion > reality (most of the time)

it may be 'superficial' and 'shallow', but these labels by themselves do not show that his judgment of 'hawtness' is any more or less morally 'wrong' than being attracted to solely personality.

you might argue, well, people can't help being born with a certain set of looks, to which i reply, well, some people can't help being born with a good personality and some people can't help but be dickheads.

 

[Frigid]

Do. not. Post. In. Size. 1.

i don't mean to shout. softly-spoken words can be just as loud.

 

[Frigid]

or I'll do this to ALL of your posts.

really? all 5000 of them?

btw, you can always increase font size in your browser if it hurts your eyes.

 

[Frigid]

WHY THE FUCK DO YOU DO IT?

it used to be only because i can. but now, it's because i can spite you.

geez, the font size is there. i use it. big deal.

 

[braad]

i don't mean to shout. softly-spoken words can be just as loud.

but you're not speaking, you're typing

unles you're the voice in my head saying what i read :s

 

[Frigid]

you took time to screenshot and post this? ^o)

 

[braad]

back to the question....
um.....let me think......
YES! well sometimes...... especially in primary school when i had this massive crush
man that was just sad
but with age comes experiance and whatnot so its not so much an issue nemore

you've learnt to not like men?

well done

 

[braad]

oh ha ha ha and wait a sec, i forgot somethin...oh yeah..HA!

ive become better able to talk to guys i like smartypants!

tehehe

you can now get somewhere with these "guys"

i'm filled with pride