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Being Single - How to get a boyfriend?? (2 Viewers)

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iamsickofyear12 said:
Have you just been asking random guys and hoping you'd eventually find a gay one, or have you asked guys that you had good reason to think were gay but recieved "i'm straight" as a response?
I just asked guys at school - they're not random but I doubt they're straight. They must be all closeted.

Ennaybur said:
one of my friends has met all his bfs at clubs and stuff, the other over the internet basically. they seem the two most common methods. just get out - particularly at gay clubs if you're into that scene.
Thanks for your advice, I really appreciate it =D

katie_tully said:
lulz. it's kinda shit that homosexuals have a different legal age than the rest of us, it's not like heterosexuals dont do butt secks either.

im not gay so i have no idea where you pick up other gay guys from
It's so nice of you to try and help me :)

Fish Sauce said:
Here it's just illegal.

At least "All unnatural sex" is illegal so I don't know how you'd get around that.
That law is rarely, if ever, enforced in Singapore. I lived there for like 3 years and the authorities really don't care about it too much.
 

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faov said:
That law is rarely, if ever, enforced in Singapore. I lived there for like 3 years and the authorities really don't care about it too much.
I'd like to know how it could be enforced
 
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I think the funny part is that a See Also reference for Oxford St is a gay rights campaigner and trams in Sydney. They're totally unrelated.
 

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faov said:
I just asked guys at school - they're not random but I doubt they're straight. They must be all closeted.
That's so incredibly stupid. How many guys at your school do you think are gay?

When I was in year 12 there was only 1 in my year, and only 2 more than I knew of in years 10 and 11. While there may have been a couple more that didn't want to admit it 5 or 6 out of 350 is not very many. Not to mention the fact that anyone who isn't openly gay isn't going to go out with another guy.

There are not enough gay guys around (especially in school) to just ask random people and hope you come across one. If you were 18 I would suggest a gay bar but since you aren't then your only other option as I see it is the Internet. You can't just keep going around asking straight guys.
 

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Im going out with someone double my age and then some but its special because all we do is talk. We are there 4 each other.

If u like a guy/girl tell them how you feel, and i know its easier to say than do.But do it, whats the worst that can happen? They laugh? They you pick yourself up and move on.
 
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iamsickofyear12 said:
That's so incredibly stupid. How many guys at your school do you think are gay?

When I was in year 12 there was only 1 in my year, and only 2 more than I knew of in years 10 and 11. While there may have been a couple more that didn't want to admit it 5 or 6 out of 350 is not very many. Not to mention the fact that anyone who isn't openly gay isn't going to go out with another guy.

There are not enough gay guys around (especially in school) to just ask random people and hope you come across one. If you were 18 I would suggest a gay bar but since you aren't then your only other option as I see it is the Internet. You can't just keep going around asking straight guys.
Meh there's plenty of gay guys and I reckon if I was gay at least half the people i'd ask would turn out to be gay :eek:
 

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TessaVance89 said:
Im going out with someone double my age and then some but its special because all we do is talk. We are there 4 each other.

If u like a guy/girl tell them how you feel, and i know its easier to say than do.But do it, whats the worst that can happen? They laugh? They you pick yourself up and move on.
Um.

he's asking how to pick up gay guys, not pedophiles.

Learn to read?
 

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TessaVance89 said:
Im going out with someone double my age and then some but its special because all we do is talk. We are there 4 each other.

If u like a guy/girl tell them how you feel, and i know its easier to say than do.But do it, whats the worst that can happen? They laugh? They you pick yourself up and move on.
Oh, that's so sweet! Thanks for your feedback and I'm glad your relationship is going so well - I'm almost jealous! But at the moment I'm looking for someone a little closer to my age. I would feel uncomfortable having a bf more than 3-4 years older than me at this stage.
 
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Im going out with someone double my age and then some but its special because all we do is talk. We are there 4 each other.

If u like a guy/girl tell them how you feel, and i know its easier to say than do.But do it, whats the worst that can happen? They laugh? They you pick yourself up and move on
lolz, does he touch you in your special spot and then tell you it's a secret??
 

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Tulipa said:
Um.

he's asking how to pick up gay guys, not pedophiles.

Learn to read?
Please don't be so harsh in my thread :). The user made a contribution and, though it wasn't ideal for me, we shouldn't make judgements about them. Thanks for your cooperation!!
 

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katie_tully said:
lolz, does he touch you in your special spot and then tell you it's a secret??
omg, lets not be nasty in this thread! This discussion is just a safe friendly place for us to discuss finding boyfriends.
 
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faov, I will give you some BOS hints.
You will not last long here if you continue to be as nice as you are. It doesn't work like that, there is somewhat of a hierarchy here and I'd hate to see you be chewed up and spat out.
 
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Get used to it, most threads only last three pages before they go off on a tangent anyway.
 

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katie_tully said:
oh shit i forgot. i know a gay guy who lives in sydney, we were friends as kids
his name is brett and he is on my myspace friends list. i dont know if he is looking for a boyfriend but he might know whats crackin on the social scene

myspace.com/borissquires
his name is brett.
omg thank you so much! You are too nice occasionally. I've added him to myspace along with some other gay people, and hopefully they will have some help+advice for me :D thanks again and if anything else comes to mind, please just post it here for me and any other gay/bi/"curious" aka closeted person.
 

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Tulipa said:
In the gong.

There's two gay clubs there.
where's the other one?

and faov: dont take things so seriously! things said on here are either serious or sarcastic...you need to learn to tell the difference
 
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