Biggest dilemma of my young life! (1 Viewer)

[imsooverskool]

Ok maybe that is a bit of an exaggeration, but it's pretty bad. This is my problem in a nutshell (look its me in a nutshell- sorry had to add the austin powers reference)

I am with my current bf who is a great and sweet guy, someone that i dont really deserve, and i am torn between him and another guy who just happens to be my ex. It all started when my ex rang me last week after getting back from being overseas for a year fucking aroung Europe and was like "You wanna catch up?" and i was like for sure. Note- we only broke up because he was leaving and we knew we wouldnt of been able to handle long distance at all!

So anyway... we met up and one thing led to another and i ended up sleeping with him again thus cheating on my bf who doesnt deserve this type of treatment at all. Now, all of the old feelings for my ex have come flooding back and i am not sure what to do!!!! Should i go with the ex or the current bf!!!!


AAAH, im seriously going insane here! Has anyone been in a similar situation? What do you guys think i should do? I need help my mates are no help because they are too close and cannot give any objectivity to the situation

 

[soha]

that sux
well who do you wnat to be with
simple as that
eitehr way someone will get upset whether it be you ur ex or ur b.f..
so just break it off with one

and ..did ur ex know u had a b/f b4 u slept with him?

 

[hiphophorray123]

ask your avatar what you should do

 

[imsooverskool]

ask your avatar what you should do

yeh i contemplated it, torching yourself is always the way to solve your love life

soha- my ex knew i was with someone else and he was like it doesnt matter we should be together because i love you and i missed you and all that crap!!!! AAAH... maybe i should just break it off with both and have a fresh start?

Or maybe i could just set myself alight...

 

[soha]

well..i dunno..maybe you should not see your ex anymore and pretend hes not there
or just go back with him
why dont you just tell your new boyfriend that u slept wif ur ex
and let him dump you..thats easy
ur gonan tell him right?>

 

[imsooverskool]

Yeh of course i am going to tell him, at the moment i am just too chicken shit to tell him. I am pretty sure that he will dump me, but maybe not... i mean i know for a fact that he cheated on his ex, so he isnt mr perfect. so the dilemma is, who should i choose, they both have their good qualities and both are great guys!

 

[Purp|e]

if u really like your ex better, then just tell the guy ur with and end it.

 

[soha]

u cnat decide who
and u cant have both
so ur prolly better having neither

 

[MasterP]

You don't even sound like you even like this new guy. "He doesn't deserve me", haha what bullshit. Ditch him.

 

[miaomiao]

Pick the one you like best! It will save everyone alot of sleepless nights and pain. Just DO IT! Best of Luck.

 

[imsooverskool]

see thats the problem i am not really sure who i like better, plus i am not sure if my ex is being sincere or if he justs wants a gf again- plus i am kinda disgusted with the amount of people that my ex supposedly slept with when he was in Europe, its all kinda eeew

Pro's of the ex- better in bed (sorry but its true), funnier and probably more fun to hang around with, plus we do have a looong history together

Pro's of the bf- sensitive, caring, quiet in a good way! man i swear my brain is going to explode

 

[soha]

oh well...first thing that comes into ur head when i type ex or current?

nah that wont work
u will choose ex coz its small and easy to say
or current coz its the last thing u read
lol..over it

 

[imsooverskool]

thanks for your suggetions guys! from all accounts everyone thinks i should be with the ex... aaah i guess the best thing for me to do would be to just tell the curent bf see what the reaction is then go from there?

oh and masterp- i said that i dont deserve him ( for doing what i did to him!) god i would never think that i am too good for anyone!

 

[spin spin sugar]

cheating is the scummiest thing you can do to anyone, you dont deserve your current bf, you should break up with him, tell him what youve done, then go and fuck your ex to your hearts content. dont hurt your poor current bf anymore with your shitty lack of self control

 

[miaomiao]

Well the ex will fuck you over but it sounds to me like you like him better. The current bf will probably never make you feel 'complete'. Love's tough aint it?

 

[MasterP]

oh and masterp- i said that i dont deserve him ( for doing what i did to him!) god i would never think that i am too good for anyone!

Sayng that is just an excuse. It's what chicks say when they get stuck with a boring nice guy so they can let him down easily, or without any guilt. Just admit the fact that he doesn't do anything for you, and you had already made up your mind the moment your ex asked.

^_^

 

[imsooverskool]

cheating is the scummiest thing you can do to anyone, you dont deserve your current bf, you should break up with him, tell him what youve done, then go and fuck your ex to your hearts content. dont hurt your poor current bf anymore with your shitty lack of self control

i never said it wasnt i know i fucked up (pardon the pun) big time. I realise it was a lack of self control but when you break up with someone because they are going overseas and not because of relationship problems then it is easy for the old feelings to come back.

 

[miaomiao]

Don't worry imoverskool. What youre doing is completely normal, things would probably have never worked out between you and th boring dude because you obviously want more than he can give anyways. Go for the ex if you really want him but don't expect him to be as trustworthy.

 

[imsooverskool]

Love's tough aint it?

it certainly is...

 

[Lhyviathan]

Your ex: couldn't keep his dick in his pants, despite knowing that you had a boyfriend already. Maybe I'd have had some sympathy for his plight if he did the right thing and waited for you to come to a clear decision.

2/10

Your current boyfriend: poor bastard... he really doesn't deserve this. Loses points for cheating earlier.

6/10

You: cheated on him. You really think you deserve anyone? Think about it.

1/10