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[Original_Angel]

okay, i've heard this from a few sources...
but is it true that you usually go after a guy who reminds you of your father? Because, honestly, i think i may be the contradiction to this. LoL

ahh, but if yes, anyone know WHY?

 

[ur_inner_child]

I always heard it as the men look for women like their mother, not the other way round....

Especially the way they cook grrrrr.

Though I gotta say my dad is nothing like my boyfriend.

 

[Original_Angel]

I always heard it as the men look for women like their mother, not the other way round....

hmm
i hope that i dont remind my boy about his MoM because - well, let's just say that, it's not what i wanna be like. LoL

Especially the way they cook grrrrr.

I've never cooked for him. LoL
Maybe that's just something to do with how guys tend to follow their stomachs!

Though I gotta say my dad is nothing like my boyfriend.

Agreed! :uhhuh: :uhhuh:

::EdiT::
but does anyone know why this is so - like the guys after their mother like girls and girls after their father like boys...?

 

[Dreamerish*~]

lol i'm glad my boyfriend doesn't look like my dad
i do though '-_-
yes i think the cooking factor is important. my boyfriend said that when we get married he wants his mum to come cook for us.

 

[nick1048]

lmao I like a gurl that can cook but its not a deciding factor.

 

[Original_Angel]

lol i'm glad my boyfriend doesn't look like my dad
i do though '-_-

umm, sorry, I didn't quite understand what you meant by "i do though" lol, do you mean you look like your Dad, or his Mom or something? LoL

neway.. i think it's more of the personality thing - so what do you girls [and guys] find? Is that the kinda person who attracts you? Is it because you feel safe with them or something?

 

[Original_Angel]

lmao I like a gurl that can cook but its not a deciding factor.

Glad to hear it!

 

[AntiHyper]

I also heard that girls look for boys which they like the smell of.. is this true?
And to contradict previous posts.. i can cook and have been doing it for myself for 3 years.

 

[Dreamerish*~]

lol yeah but that's not that important.
when i first met my boyfriend he smelled sexy and i liked to sit close to him so i can smell his cologne. so i guess it matters to an extent.

 

[Original_Angel]

I also heard that girls look for boys which they like the smell of.. is this true?
And to contradict previous posts.. i can cook and have been doing it for myself for 3 years.

haha, about the girls looking for guys they like the smell of - I can see why that's the case, I mean, you don't wanna be with a stinky person - they've gotta have good hygine. LoL - but don't most guys also wanna be with girls who they like the smell of and stuff?

ahh - i like a guy who can cook - it's really cute - but not cooking everything cooking, just... not a lazy bum who cant and wont cook. Lol

 

[bubz :D]

my boyfriend is nothing like my father, thank the Lord
and my exes don't exactly remind me of him either

 

[stainmepink]

okay, i've heard this from a few sources...
but is it true that you usually go after a guy who reminds you of your father? Because, honestly, i think i may be the contradiction to this. LoL

ahh, but if yes, anyone know WHY?

oh god .. that reminds me ... i sometimes accidently call my bf "dad". thats so weird .. maybe what you say is true. its also quite disgusting

 

[stainmepink]

and im not into incest or anything gross like that ok? im a normal person

 

[val_dramaqueen]

I also heard that girls look for boys which they like the smell of.. is this true?

oh yes! if i smell a guy that smells like a smell which i dig... im so there!
i also dig chicks wearing guy deoderant...

 

[jumb]

okay, i've heard this from a few sources...
but is it true that you usually go after a guy who reminds you of your father? Because, honestly, i think i may be the contradiction to this. LoL

ahh, but if yes, anyone know WHY?

You're on drugs, aren't you?

Anyway, I hope no girl ever picks me because I'm like her dad, because all I'd want to do is have sex with her...

 

[val_dramaqueen]

You're on drugs, aren't you?

Anyway, I hope no girl ever picks me because I'm like her dad, because all I'd want to do is have sex with her...

thats cause your just a sex machine

 

[jumb]

Well, yeah, I know, but it was also a joke, saying that if her father is like me, then he only wants to have sex with her too.

 

[val_dramaqueen]

Well, yeah, I know, but it was also a joke, saying that if her father is like me, then he only wants to have sex with her too.

pfft, i realise it was a joke!! anyway... im gonna go joke somewhere else

 

[colboltic_dream]

My bf looks nothing like my dad. And luckily hes nothing like my dad at all. I wouldnt go out with anyone like my dad to save my life

 

[MaryJane]

It is said that girls go after guys that are like their father because their father is the only male rolemodel in their lives and thus they look up to them. You might not consciously go after someone like your father (because that would be a bit weird), but you might find that things your boy does (their mannerisms, beliefs etc) are like your father.

I used to think this was absolute crap, but then I realised that my ex- had a temper like my father and tried to control some of the things I did, like a father does with his only daughter. Even now, with my current boy, his generosity reminds me of my father, and I think that as a father he too will be as doting and devoted as my dad, but thats where the similarities stop. This is apparently why women who were raised in domestically disturbed homes go for the 'bad boys' who treat them the same way their father treated their mother, thus pretty much repeating the cycle.