Can you be friends with an Ex? (1 Viewer)

[Yarg]

fucking hell you guys are real downers lol. Isnt there any good news out there?

 

[super katie]

the short answer is no. if you stay "friends" you're going to be screwed over.

 

[meLoncoLLie]

screw friendship. things just get more awkward.

 

[azzie]

especially if you've had sex with the person

 

[Minai]

does it have to be a close friendship? I'm on friendly terms with my ex'es, meaning, I'll talk to them/hang out etc when I occasionally run into them.

smegger_em..am I missing something..you both love each other yet you've broken up? I guess it's more complicated than it sounds eh..

 

[Cactus]

especially if you've had sex with the person

exactly

smegger_em..am I missing something..you both love each other yet you've broken up? I guess it's more complicated than it sounds eh..

The problem is that they love each other but they are broken up. THAT is why it can't work. There's obviously too many issues there, feelings that go unexpressed and unsaid, and that is why i say that their friendship will not last.

 

[thejosiekiller]

its always going to be awkard cause u dont know what to say if anything. personally friendship after sex hasnt worked for me and i prefer not to see that person again for some time until i am comfortable with them being my ex. however i dont think its impossible

 

[Not-That-Bright]

does it have to be a close friendship? I'm on friendly terms with my ex'es, meaning, I'll talk to them/hang out etc when I occasionally run into them.

smegger_em..am I missing something..you both love each other yet you've broken up? I guess it's more complicated than it sounds eh..

Minai incase you've never experienced it..... sometimes person a can love person b then person b dumps person a but keeps telling person a that they love them, making person a think that they're still pretty much in a relationship... person b is just leaving person a dangling which can end in alot of pain if person a doesn't end it.

 

[GSTARRAW]

Bottom line is, you can't remain friends with ex's.... It's impossible if there's still feelings there. I might add though, girls are so fucking confusing, more confusing then 2unit maths.

 

[azzie]

or 3 unit maths
what the hells with that subject?!
boys are silly. throw rocks at them

 

[wanton-wonton]

screw friendship. things just get more awkward.

I see you don't have much friends.

 

[wanton-wonton]

or 3 unit maths
what the hells with that subject?!
boys are silly. throw rocks at them

Yeah girls are whores, kill 'em all.

and I'm doing 4U maths, you WHORE!

 

[azzie]

i didnt know you were a maths nerd...............................
MATHS NERD!!!!

back on topic, i think the conclusion is no, it usually doesnt work coz there are emotions that you still attach to that person, or something else that was there that now isnt, and it usually makes people feel weird about it

 

[nicko88]

you do realise that wanton is asian, right?

 

[GSTARRAW]

Well with a name like wanton-wonton, one could only assume his ethnicity is asian.

 

[wanton-wonton]

i didnt know you were a maths nerd...............................
MATHS NERD!!!!

back on topic, i think the conclusion is no, it usually doesnt work coz there are emotions that you still attach to that person, or something else that was there that now isnt, and it usually makes people feel weird about it

Well you're an English whore.

ENGLISH WOHREEEEEEE.

Anyway. "i think the conclusion is no" We don't care what your conclusion is.

 

[azzie]

at least im not a maths whore

 

[sped_kid01]

yuk, who cares what race ppl are, or if they do 4unit maths?

doesnt it really make a difference?

 

[azzie]

prolly not
but its fun to pay people out for doing heaps of maths, since i cant do it

 

[sped_kid01]

spose...

if u cant do something, and someone else can, make fun of them, and make urself feel better