Difficulty getting a "shy" guy's attention. (1 Viewer)

[Dr_Doom]

Except you don't goto uni Just say "Hi <name>". Then she will know your interested. Then you can work on it from there.

Cheers

 

[riot_girl88]

i used to have a crush on a shy guy, on the occassions that we did talk he would sorta drop subtle hints and stuff, but he didnt make a move, and i got bored waiting and moved on.

 

[Dr_Doom]

Maybe he didn't know you liked him...!?

 

[Jiga]

Yeah like duh, if you know the guy is shy, hes not gonna go out on a limb and make the move, you gotta take the initiative!

 

[riot_girl88]

Yeah like duh, if you know the guy is shy, hes not gonna go out on a limb and make the move, you gotta take the initiative!

yeah but i never make the first move, no matter how much i liked a guy.... hey i guess that makes me kinda shy. i mean at parties my friends are all out there and stuff and walk right up to guys and tell them, i mostly drop a couple of hints, thats all.

 

[Jiga]

yeah but i never make the first move, no matter how much i liked a guy.... hey i guess that makes me kinda shy. i mean at parties my friends are all out there and stuff and walk right up to guys and tell them, i mostly drop a couple of hints, thats all.

Hmm yes, well its the eternal struggle really, two shy people that is. Shyness stems from a fear of rejection, and if both people are like this, then you need a third party (ie a friend) to do some work, like go ask him who he likes etc without being obvious, and if the answer is positive then its alot easier.