Dilemma (1 Viewer)

[my sharona]

MY SHARONA. YOUR MISSING THE POINT COMPLETLY. WHERE DID I SAY 'THAT WHEN HE HAS A NEW GIRLFRIEND HE NEEDS TO SEEK MY APPROVAL' READ THEN POST BECAUSE I THINK YOU MISREAD WHAT I ACTUALLY SAID.

I DON'T CARE WHO HE GOES OUT WITH. I PUSHED HIM TO FIND A GIRLFRIEND WHEN WE WERE FRIENDS. HE WENT OUT WITH COUNTLESS FEMALES WHEN WE WERE GOOD FRIENDS AND THEY WERE LOVELY I NEVER INTERFERED AND I WAS THERE FOR HIM WHEN HE NEEDED ADVICE. I SAID WHEN HE STARTED GOING OUT WITH THIS CERTAIN GIRL, HE DECIDED TO TAKE IT UPON HIMSELF TO SAY DEROGATORY THINGS TO ME WHICH WERE UN CALLED FOR, I JUST THINK IT WAS SELFISH OF HIM TO SAY THOSE THINGS TO ME OUT OF THE BLUE WHEN EVERYTHING WASN'T EVEN THAT BAD FROM THE BEGINNING.

ITS EASY FOR YOU TO TELL PEOPLE TO 'GET OVER IT' BUT ITS NOT THAT EASY. YOU THINK I CAN GO TO SLEEP AND THEN THE NEXT DAY ITS ALL GOOD? AND THE PROBLEM IS SOLVED? I'M NOT SELFISH AND I ONLY WISH HIM HAPPINESS. WHEN SOMEONE HURTS YOU THAT WAY IT DOESN'T HEAL IN TWO SECONDS, I MIGHT FORGIVE BUT ILL NEVER FORGET.

My god, i never said to 'get over it'. I told you to get over yourself and to move on.

As far as i was concerned, none of your posts really had a point, they were just self-important blabber detailing how good a friend you are, and how great you were to this guy, and how you deserve some sort of explanation/apology.

yeah I'll give him space, all the space he needs to cool down

Have you ever thought that maybe he isn't going to cool down, and that maybe he's just grown out of a childhood friendship?