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MasterP said:
Not being attached works to your advantage, it prevents you from being a wimp and screwing anything up.

So, don't become attached until she puts out is my ideology.
someones experienced? lol
 

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Inscrutable said:
true true, but i meant attached as in you think thats a good sign to start something
So did I.
 

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I like when guys are shy and don't know what to do, but it gets a tad annoying after a bit, i say take the chance. cause your window of opportunity might not be open for much longer.
 

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SweetSeasons said:
I like when guys are shy and don't know what to do, but it gets a tad annoying after a bit, i say take the chance. cause your window of opportunity might not be open for much longer.
^ Smarter than she looks.
 

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lol, its the reason i haven't kissed any one for 3 months. I've been on dates with diff guys, but they are all to shy to make a move, one couldn't even look me in the eye, so yeah is it bad that my window of oppotunity for a guy closes if he doesn't make a move on the 1st date? And I'm not talkin anything big like, holding my hand or puttn his arm around me in a movie would do.
 

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SweetSeasons said:
lol, its the reason i haven't kissed any one for 3 months. I've been on dates with diff guys, but they are all to shy to make a move, one couldn't even look me in the eye, so yeah is it bad that my window of oppotunity for a guy closes if he doesn't make a move on the 1st date? And I'm not talkin anything big like, holding my hand or puttn his arm around me in a movie would do.
Are u seroius he is on a date and he does jack all, give u give the impression u were not interested
 

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these are like three or so diff guys. I'm interested, give that impression. I haven't been interested enough to make the first move, but if the guy makes the first move i'll go along with it cause i'm interested enough to go on more dates to see if something more serious could happen. Is that bad?
 

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SweetSeasons said:
these are like three or so diff guys. I'm interested, give that impression. I haven't been interested enough to make the first move, but if the guy makes the first move i'll go along with it cause i'm interested enough to go on more dates to see if something more serious could happen. Is that bad?
I find it hard to believe a guy doesnt make any move on the first date, who asked who out?
 

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SweetSeasons said:
these are like three or so diff guys. I'm interested, give that impression. I haven't been interested enough to make the first move, but if the guy makes the first move i'll go along with it cause i'm interested enough to go on more dates to see if something more serious could happen. Is that bad?
lol, u probably lost your window of opportunity
 

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SweetSeasons said:
lol inscut :p

i asked one, two asked me.... meh, not important. lol
Actually it is, a guy might feel obligated to say yes if a chick asked them out, but the two guys that asked u out and did sweet bugger all is strange, maybe they liked you heaps and didnt want to rush things, or maybe u seem to sweet to do anything with, or they had other things on their mind
 

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SweetSeasons said:
Meh! It's not important cause I don't want to see them again
Yes but one must learn from past mistakes or they are doomed to repeat them.
Anyways is S&*^# one of these guys
 

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no. lol. If only. I only see that guy at work. he's pretty confident, i think he would know what to do and when to do it, but then he is just a dorky guy who grew up nice lol. I dunno.
 

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Take the lead, ask her out for coffee. This will give you the chance to be 1 on 1 in a good social environment and give you the opportunity to find out more about her (and visa versa). Also, since there aren't any distractions (e.g. homework), only you, you'll be able to tell whether or not shes interested by her body language and the topics she raises.
 

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currysauce said:
Umm we went and got pizza
So, it's not like mum told you "dinner's ready" and then she asked you becasue dinner was ready... It's a good sign; she wants to spend time with you. In my experience 'helping' with homework ends up being more of an excuse to.... dum dum DUM! Spend time with each other because she's interested in you. (Assuming she wasn't staying like 12 metres away from you all night! ;)

Tommy_Lamp said:
Take the lead, ask her out for coffee.... etc...
Good advice; make another move and go from there. If you're comfy with her there's no reason to hesitate; don't make it a 'date', just, hang out together see where things lead.
 

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Skittled said:
So, it's not like mum told you "dinner's ready" and then she asked you becasue dinner was ready... It's a good sign; she wants to spend time with you. In my experience 'helping' with homework ends up being more of an excuse to.... dum dum DUM! Spend time with each other because she's interested in you. (Assuming she wasn't staying like 12 metres away from you all night! ;)


Good advice; make another move and go from there. If you're comfy with her there's no reason to hesitate; don't make it a 'date', just, hang out together see where things lead.
Well if she is sitting on ur lap its a pretty good sign
 

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