Do you see yourself getting married? (1 Viewer)

[soha]

yeah i wanna finish uni too
my sister managed to get married in 2nd yr uni and her husband was also in second yr uni so they will finish together
and that would be cool...

 

[sparkl3z]

oh oki that's sweet lol....it really depends on the situation.....i can't be sure of what i say till i experience it so...but yeh that would be kool if u meet someone in uni and u fall in love and finish together! hmm..that gives me an idea.....u can help eachother with assignemnts and stuff if ur in the same units!

 

[soha]

true..except they dont do the same thing
however he is president of the islamic association and shes vice president
thats kinda how they met thru working together
and funnily enuff the 3 previous ex captains and vice captains all got married too
so ppl were teasing them saying they were next
and they were like hell no
but it happened..i thought it was funny

 

[table for 1]

i can definitely see myself getting married. i have this all planned - kind of. [this is going backwards though] have two kids before 30, at ages 28 and 26. so get married at 25. want to know the guy for some time, so have to start dating at like 22 or earlier. aged 22, i'll either be doing honours in uni, or working. so that means i'm confined to meeting guys who go to the same uni, or work in the same area as me. or, i get matched by a friend. i don't really see myself getting picked up while out with my friends.

but i'm very scared. because being realistic, i really doubt i'll meet The One at 22. who's really that serious at 22? i want to have a steady job first, and i really doubt i'll land my dream job within the first yr after uni. and i'm scared that i'll never find the one.

 

[Inscrutable]

i can definitely see myself getting married. i have this all planned - kind of. [this is going backwards though] have two kids before 30, at ages 28 and 26. so get married at 25. want to know the guy for some time, so have to start dating at like 22 or earlier. aged 22, i'll either be doing honours in uni, or working. so that means i'm confined to meeting guys who go to the same uni, or work in the same area as me. or, i get matched by a friend. i don't really see myself getting picked up while out with my friends.

but i'm very scared. because being realistic, i really doubt i'll meet The One at 22. who's really that serious at 22? i want to have a steady job first, and i really doubt i'll land my dream job within the first yr after uni. and i'm scared that i'll never find the one.

crazy thing happen, dont worry
its not a good idea to plan alot cause things always do end up differntly, so u should just focus on short term plans and enjoy life

 

[ogmzergrush]

i can definitely see myself getting married. i have this all planned - kind of. [this is going backwards though] have two kids before 30, at ages 28 and 26. so get married at 25. want to know the guy for some time, so have to start dating at like 22 or earlier. aged 22, i'll either be doing honours in uni, or working. so that means i'm confined to meeting guys who go to the same uni, or work in the same area as me. or, i get matched by a friend. i don't really see myself getting picked up while out with my friends.

but i'm very scared. because being realistic, i really doubt i'll meet The One at 22. who's really that serious at 22? i want to have a steady job first, and i really doubt i'll land my dream job within the first yr after uni. and i'm scared that i'll never find the one.

I consider myself to be pretty serious and I'm only 20. I'm almost five years into a serious relationship and don't see it changing any time soon. Not everyone might be so serious about things, but there are people who do and I'm sure you'll find one

That said, you've got a pretty rigid sounding plan there!Life doesn't always work out exactly like you had planned, so you might need to allow for a bit more flexibility in things, it's all good as long as you get where you're going

 

[table for 1]

i can't help it. i worry a lot. sometimes i get so stressed just thinking about things [not just marriage, just anything] and how they won't turn out how i want them. and i know i can't always have things the way i want it, but i'm selfish. and i know it's so far away in the future, but, it also seems so soon.

i'm just always scared. i jsut hope this doesn;t end up clouding my judgement

 

[Ollz San]

never.

I don't exactly believe in marriage and all the shenanigans.

 

[Jase]

Ask me the same question in 10 years time.

 

[aimstar555]

Ask me the same question in 10 years time.

same for me.... i love my bf, but being married? i'm not so sure

 

[hiphophorray123]

i don't even see myself in a relationship let alone married :S

 

[spell check]

it would be a little self indulgent to install a giant mirror above my wedding so i could watch myself

 

[shady_03]

Yeah not for a bit, but it would suk to not get married and possibly be lonely. It depends on if i find sum1 or not

 

[LazyBoy]

im a very plucky guy i guess. i like the ieda of eventually getting married. but i wouldnt get married for the sake of it, nor any time soon. but i love the whole idea of beeing in a serious loving relationship.

 

[OZGIRL86]

im a very plucky guy i guess. i like the ieda of eventually getting married. but i wouldnt get married for the sake of it, nor any time soon. but i love the whole idea of beeing in a serious loving relationship.

yeah I wouldn't get married just for the sake of getting married either.

 

[flipsyde]

I dont see me gettign married.... but hey you nver know.. but I eally dont see it I hate commitment lol

 

[Smokey_22]

Flipsyde i can just see your little kiddies runnin around the place..

 

[flipsyde]

lol.. kiddies for me no....lol IF I did end up gettin married there would DEFINATELY be no kids!.... maybe adopted but their aint no way Im gettin preggers

 

[OZGIRL86]

lol.. kiddies for me no....lol IF I did end up gettin married there would DEFINATELY be no kids!.... maybe adopted but their aint no way Im gettin preggers

lol flip, no kids? I bet you will change your mind I want kids but not for a long time

 

[--hiphop--]

Yep, could see myself gettin married. Had a mate who got married at 18. I know a couple who were going out for 3 weeks, got married and have 6 kids or so, nice fam. I reckon it's a special thing to be married, and is often pushed away to much by todays society that seems to value everything indivdual, mabye....that's a contributing factor to the higher divorce rate...who knows.

I've been goin out with my girlfriend for 2 years now. I think there comes a point where ya can think about looking for a wife/husband in ur next relationship...at least ya'll know ya'll be with a quality person.