dumped (2 Viewers)

[cabanaboy21]

hey guys... thought id ask the question... you see i was officially dumped yesterday by my girlfriend, we would have been goin out 5months on like tuesday or somethin... an i really like the girl but then like she broke up with me and i found myself not to phased by it... like i dunno if it was cos i was kinda expecting it or something but like shes like yeh im not ready for this n stuff an im like sure no probs... it didnt like affect me... and this was a girl i had been close to for a while before goin out with her an then now its like over an i dont overly mind... WHY IS THAT??? any thoughts?

 

[jumb]

hey guys... thought id ask the question... you see i was officially dumped yesterday by my girlfriend, we would have been goin out 5months on like tuesday or somethin... an i really like the girl but then like she broke up with me and i found myself not to phased by it... like i dunno if it was cos i was kinda expecting it or something but like shes like yeh im not ready for this n stuff an im like sure no probs... it didnt like affect me... and this was a girl i had been close to for a while before goin out with her an then now its like over an i dont overly mind... WHY IS THAT??? any thoughts?

The full effects haven't hit you yet.

 

[Dreamerish*~]

hey guys... thought id ask the question... you see i was officially dumped yesterday by my girlfriend, we would have been goin out 5months on like tuesday or somethin... an i really like the girl but then like she broke up with me and i found myself not to phased by it... like i dunno if it was cos i was kinda expecting it or something but like shes like yeh im not ready for this n stuff an im like sure no probs... it didnt like affect me... and this was a girl i had been close to for a while before goin out with her an then now its like over an i dont overly mind... WHY IS THAT??? any thoughts?

Well, you don't have to worry about it.

You've probably been subconsciously feeling the same thing for her. It's simple. You weren't ready for it either.

 

[Nesty]

it's alright dude.. i got dumped yesterday too.. just get drunk and you won't know what's happening anymore

 

[green_fairy]

The full effects haven't hit you yet.

I agree. Just because you feel like this now dosen't mean it'll stay that way. That said if i were you i'd get involved in stuff to keep your mind off things cause if down the track it hits you all of a sudden you wanna have things to be pre-occupied with so you dont have to wallow in your own self pity.

 

[jumb]

it's alright dude.. i got dumped yesterday too.. just get drunk and you won't know what's happening anymore

You guys should meet up and have depression-sex.

 

[cabanaboy21]

Yes, symptoms will include depression, chronic suicide, social withdrawl and a general feeling of insecurity and inadequacy.

thanks for the reassurance mate but im not the depression, suicide type... i usually bottle up everythin n release it in big outbursts!! lol

 

[Nesty]

You guys should meet up and have depression-sex.

yay!! let's go and have sex.. that's really gonna help

 

[cabanaboy21]

You guys should meet up and have depression-sex.

sounds good.... pitty sex

 

[cabanaboy21]

yay!! let's go and have sex.. that's really gonna help

sex is good

 

[jumb]

yay!! let's go and have sex.. that's really gonna help

Yeah, that's why I suggested it.

 

[Atticus.]

you need rebound sex

 

[cabanaboy21]

you need rebound sex

sex is sex i just need to have sex sex sex sex sex

 

[chelzmalee]

It'll hit you, it'll suck, you'll have sex and it'll feel all better.

 

[wanton-wonton]

Yes, symptoms will include depression, chronic suicide, social withdrawl and a general feeling of insecurity and inadequacy.

Chronic suicide? That doesn't make sense. You mean chronic-attempt-to-suicide?

 

[RingerINC]

Chronic suicide? That doesn't make sense. You mean chronic-attempt-to-suicide?

that reminds me of that time i said

"man if i ever commit suicied, i'm gonna try and shoot myself twice in the head, just to show them how hardcore i am."

 

[Tulipa]

sex is sex i just need to have sex sex sex sex sex

no little boy you don't.

i also don't believe that you don't care. cause if so you would've broken it off with her so stop pretending that you don't care and actually get sad/depressed/angry.

 

[jumb]

that reminds me of that time i said

"man if i ever commit suicied, i'm gonna try and shoot myself twice in the head, just to show them how hardcore i am."

Shooting yourself when you're already dead? That's fairly hardcore.

 

[Frigid]

so stop pretending that you don't care and actually get sad/depressed/angry.

sometimes denial is the best part of it.

when i want to suspend my disbelief on a state of affairs, i usually go eat, drink and be merry for one whole day.

 

[Tulipa]

sometimes denial is the best part of it.

when i want to suspend my disbelief on a state of affairs, i usually go eat, drink and be merry for one whole day.

true...

but i actually know pat and this is weird. he really liked her.