Ahuh, so far
the ISP's don't correspond, since one uses cable and one uses ADSL, i remoted with freaking_out, and checked the source code and it looks fine to me, but what i observed was, specifically the Eng Adv section, the links tagged with <-- ref .... etc...
was the ones that had been playing up, the standard HTML tags "a href", responded nicely, but what was also more funny was i grabbed a the file of a PDF off the source and stuck the DNS of the site in front, and wasn't able to download it, strange, very strange, does PHP require any specific install of plug-ins etc?...