Fuck buddy etiquette (1 Viewer)

[withoutaface]

So, while I'm not in a fuck buddy situation right now, last night I was having a discussion with a mate who says it's completely wrong and very bad etiquette to pash a fuck buddy before/after/during the act, because that breaks the 'friends' barrier, I said that was stupid and that if the sex didn't break the friends barrier, kissing certainly wouldn't.

Thoughts?

 

[transcendent]

I doubt I've ever be in this situation but I believe kissing to be one of the most sexy and intimate acts. It's simple and gets me into it. This is cause I value kissing as an affectionate expression. However in this situation, if kissing is not hot and heavy, a is gentle and intimate, it is possible it can blur the perspective. Fuck buddies aren't girlfriends, don't treat them like one. Hot and heavy yes, close and intimate no.

 

[Darkening]

Its about enjoyment, why not kiss, it feels nice

 

[bubz :D]

lengy, i'd find it hard to get "hot and heavy" without kissing, though...

 

[withoutaface]

Then you either agree to start going out, or stop secksing.

 

[tlodg]

sorry I misread the question u posted
yeah I agree if sex didn't break the friends barrier.... then what's wrong with kissing

 

[transcendent]

no bubblez i meant in terms of kissing it should be more passionate rather than slow get it? and yes i agree with you, i find it difficult to connect without kissing.

 

[bubz :D]

ohhh right! yeah... usually with fuck buddies it's pretty urgent and "i want you now" kissing, unless you're teasing them... while they're handcuffed

 

[Snow Pea!]

kissing adds to the whole sex experience.
it would be kind of weird having sex without it :/

 

[transcendent]

o_0!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[dora_18]

it really depends how you classify the fuck buddy.....
see i use mine for jack rabbit WHAM WHAM WHAM kinda sex...
not the kinda sex id have wih a partner...well maybe sometimes..but usualy sex with a partner is supposed to have some sort of romantic aspect to it...

 

[tlodg]

I love sex on the internet.

hahaha
better than real life sex?

 

[transcendent]

you can live out your fantasies. you are in complete control.

 

[Ennaybur]

do you mean kissing them randomly like outside the sexing situation? in that case it cud mean a bit more , but if its just during/b4/after then i think its part of the experience

 

[0Jade0]

"This, that and the other"

 

[katy-g]

I think it would be hard not to kiss them. How can you let them put their dick in you but youre not willing to kiss their lips???

Thats just odd.

 

[ur_inner_child]

So its agreed

yes to kissing fuck buddies.

 

[Bradna]

Sounds like your friend is a jackass..

 

[Optophobia]

So, while I'm not in a fuck buddy situation right now, last night I was having a discussion with a mate who says it's completely wrong and very bad etiquette to pash a fuck buddy before/after/during the act, because that breaks the 'friends' barrier, I said that was stupid and that if the sex didn't break the friends barrier, kissing certainly wouldn't.

Thoughts?

Why don't you fuck your mate, kiss him, and then find out?

 

[mr_brightside]

Yes to before and during.

No to afterwards.