Girl Ready, Boy Not? (1 Viewer)

[MzbLaZeIT]

Is this common?

a girl is ready to have sex with the guy, but he isnt?

what could be factors stopping him??

who says no to a girl who is willing to have sex?

 

[vafa]

i really do not like to clasify people.

but I think a boy may really love a girl and he does not want to have sex with her because he loves her and his decision is to marry her. by doing sex he would think that he is not doing the right thing. in the other hand we have a lot of religious men who do not have physical relationship beore marriage and that is a religious tradition. it may have another reason and that is a boy may think a girl is going to misuse him and she will leave him after a while that is why he does not want to have sex.
but as i said we have different people and different people think in different ways.

i hope it helps you.

 

[lil lelu]

hes gay

 

[ice ken]

hes gay

lol :rofl: nah hes not. maybe hes religious no sex before marriage? lol

 

[MzbLaZeIT]

LMAO!!

well his dick doesnt look like that, i know that much.
and he is pretty religious.. interesting ay!
but to think he was going to marry her, then why wouldnt he jst fuck her lool

 

[MzbLaZeIT]

and say the girl has had sex before, and he hasnt

why am i using third person, im talking about me lol

 

[ice ken]

and say the girl has had sex before, and he hasnt

why am i using third person, im talking about me lol

hmmmmmm does he know that uve had sex b4?

 

[MzbLaZeIT]

hmmmmmm does he know that uve had sex b4?

yep

 

[kc-ok-la]

maybe he doesnt want seconds,


but seriously,
perhaps he feels that he shouldnt because he wants his first time to be amazing,
sure it could be amazing
but perhaps it could be even better with more geuine emotions attached

 

[Shell]

he could be just worried that he has to live up to your previous partners standards. if hes a virgin, he could be worried coz he has nfi what hes doing?

 

[MzbLaZeIT]

the emotions are all there
and even though ive had sex before (once), i feel more attracted + LOVE HIM more than any1 else.. and wish he was my first, but not everythings perfect

 

[ice ken]

maybe he doesnt want seconds,


but seriously,
perhaps he feels that he shouldnt because he wants his first time to be amazing,
sure it could be amazing
but perhaps it could be even better with more geuine emotions attached

could be true. maybe he doesnt want to ruin his reputation or sumfing?? people knowing that hes had sex. is he sum smart guy doing sum proffesional uni course like med or sumthing?

 

[MzbLaZeIT]

lol i dont think demographics have nothing to do with it, but if it helps he's not working atm, but was doing construction @ uni

most of his friends are virgins too
he has been intimate with other girls (ie finger + headjobs)

just giving random info so we can figure it out
when i tried asking him, he kind of brushes it off, or "it might happen soon"

he is pretty religious also, but it was REALLY close to happening once when things got heated up.. well it did.. for like 30 seconds.. so i dont see why its like a no go area now?

 

[ice ken]

lol i dont think demographics have nothing to do with it, but if it helps he's not working atm, but was doing construction @ uni

most of his friends are virgins too
he has been intimate with other girls (ie finger + headjobs)

just giving random info so we can figure it out
when i tried asking him, he kind of brushes it off, or "it might happen soon"

he is pretty religious also, but it was REALLY close to happening once when things got heated up.. well it did.. for like 30 seconds.. so i dont see why its like a no go area now?

lol he doesnt want to get punished by God ?

 

[Gilbert1]

Is this common?

a girl is ready to have sex with the guy, but he isnt?

what could be factors stopping him??

who says no to a girl who is willing to have sex?

God theres ALOT that can influence his mind.
Religion is an obvious one. Even if he really really likes the girl.
Doesn't think he can preform (nothing to do with compared to your ex's)
Not ready (i have a friend who was guilted into sex by his gf. Yes you heard me)

My word of advice. Stop pressuring him. He'll turn around one day you just don't know when and the more you pressure him the more likely is that you will never get any from him.

 

[AlleyCat]

i would say he is nervous and shy about having sex for the first time. it's understandable, especially if you arent a virgin.

just be patient...









...or jack him up and ride him

 

[mr_brightside]

...or jack him up and ride him

yeah thats good advice.

Just start giving him head and stop when he's horny as hell
Then look to him, pull your shirt up, put your hands down your pants, smile and say;

"If you want to cum, then fuck me"

Doubt he could resist.

 

[Darkening]

Refer to:

http://community.boredofstudies.org/293/love-relationships/115401/guys-would-u-care.html

Ohh... He might of been like me, he didnt want to have sex because maby you might expect something good, hes scared.

OR MABY

He wanted to lose it to someone he knows that will last something long, to me losing virginity to the one you believe you love is a big issue... I lost mine to my current GF and I passed down sex before her, ive been called gay and all for that (some people in my school found out) and yeh.... Dont let it get u down, just wait

 

[AlleyCat]

yeah thats good advice.

Just start giving him head and stop when he's horny as hell
Then look to him, pull your shirt up, put your hands down your pants, smile and say;

"If you want to cum, then fuck me"

Doubt he could resist.

i agree.

this may be an overshare, but i think i practically raped my current boyfriend the first time we had sex.

...and now he's so damn grateful. yeah!

p.s. dan, i've been thinking it for ages, now i'm just going to say it:

you are totally rad.
you know that?
of course you do.

 

[Darkening]

i agree.

this may be an overshare, but i think i practically raped my current boyfriend the first time we had sex.

...and now he's so damn grateful. yeah!

p.s. dan, i've been thinking it for ages, now i'm just going to say it:

you are totally rad.
you know that?
of course you do.

I dont believe you raped him!

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