Good/Bad girls? (1 Viewer)

[*~Dazed~*]

i dont know... thats why i want to know what he means by naughty?
when i hear the word naughty i think of someone talking back in class or not eating their vegetables or chucking a tantrum or telling their siblings to shut up..

ok ill shut up now

 

[AsyLum]

hehe, yeah naughty isnt exactly a word to use for our age, maybe a wild party girl would be a better example to think of, to me anyway, thats what i see when i hear naughty

 

[ogmzergrush]

haha, "the one" wont come for a a hideous montrosity such as myself

If you're still stuck for a 'the one' and my situation happens to change, I'll take the job

Edited: Might help if I quote the right bit!

 

[hipsta_jess]

how about a combo of the two?

 

[ogmzergrush]

how about a combo of the two?

Yeah, that sounds like a better idea

Which would you prefer?

A naughty chick who knows lotsa people, goes out heaps, really sociable, goes out raving/dance parties, and everyone (includin urself) reckons she's really really hawwwt!!

OR

Would you rather a down-to-earth good girl who studies hard, listens to her parents, has a small circle of friends and is really innocent and sweet.. But she's not as tempting as the naughty chick..

Odd comparison, why do you make a point of saying that the 'naughty' person is 'hawwwt', and state specifically that the more introverted of the two is 'less tempting'? Is that a pre-judgement that you've made or just a wording ambiguity?

What about a girl who has goals in life and socialises if she wants to? I don't really see what 'everyone' thinking she's 'hawwwt' has to do with it either, if I'm with someone it's because I like them, not because of what others think.

I'm not sure if the entire roles work either, just because someone socialises a lot I don't think it means that they're going to be 'naughty', and similiarly I don't think people who work more than they go out are bound to be 'nice'.

If I was to ignore all of that however, and pretend that they were reasonably valid roles to compare, I guess I'd lean towards the latter, seeing as that is much closer to how I see myself (Except for the female bit)

 

[santaslayer]

I wanna bad girl that likes to pretend to be inncoent at the right time.

 

[SKA]

dont get me started

 

[Raiks]

I like a fun girl. Can that be an option.

 

[SipSip]

A good girl all the way!! Girls who are too outgoing are more likely gonna take you for granted, and even if she doesn't, she'll probably make you feel like you mean nothing more than a hang out buddie to her. If i'm in a relationship, i would rather a girl who really thinks of me as someone important to her and her being someone very important to me...

 

[AsyLum]

A good girl all the way!! Girls who are too outgoing are more likely gonna take you for granted, and even if she doesn't, she'll probably make you feel like you mean nothing more than a hang out buddie to her. If i'm in a relationship, i would rather a girl who really thinks of me as someone important to her and her being someone very important to me...

i think the word is make you feel like an "accessory"

 

[SipSip]

i think the word is make you feel like an "accessory"

yes...but that's too short...i have time to type what my mind is saying...so therefore i do...

 

[AsyLum]

Rofl.

If my thoughts were unleashed, it would be something like this:







































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Interesting isnt it.

 

[Raiks]

A good girl all the way!! Girls who are too outgoing are more likely gonna take you for granted, and even if she doesn't, she'll probably make you feel like you mean nothing more than a hang out buddie to her. If i'm in a relationship, i would rather a girl who really thinks of me as someone important to her and her being someone very important to me...

It's not the outgoing characteristic which poses a problem... Felicity and Jacqueline are two of the most outgoing people I've ever come across, happy to ferry it across the harbour on the spur of a moment to have fun, get out and socialise, while still managing to be 2 of the most loyal and trusting people I ever known... Its the trust and respect that is an issue, not their outgoingness and how social they are. Respect is a big deal, because without that, its hard to have anything.

 

[berry580]

Which would you prefer?

A naughty chick who knows lotsa people, goes out heaps, really sociable, goes out raving/dance parties, and everyone (includin urself) reckons she's really really hawwwt!!

OR

Would you rather a down-to-earth good girl who studies hard, listens to her parents, has a small circle of friends and is really innocent and sweet.. But she's not as tempting as the naughty chick..

Definately innocent girls.
I'll rather wait a year for a innocent girl than f--- a bad girl for a year who's been f---ed countless times by others.

In fact, mz_bubbletea, you look like my type.

 

[Raiks]

Which would you prefer?

A naughty chick who knows lotsa people, goes out heaps, really sociable, goes out raving/dance parties, and everyone (includin urself) reckons she's really really hawwwt!!

OR

Would you rather a down-to-earth good girl who studies hard, listens to her parents, has a small circle of friends and is really innocent and sweet.. But she's not as tempting as the naughty chick..

Umm, why is a girl who knows lotsa people, goes out heaps, really sociable, goes out raving/dance parties, and everyone (includin urself) reckons she's really really hawwwt considered bad?

Both my housemates are like that, and they both have completed post-graduate studies, hold respectable jobs, are two of the most loyal people I know who also are unbelievably down to earth family orientated women who value respect and communication in their lives....

 

[berry580]

Umm, why is a girl who knows lotsa people, goes out heaps, really sociable, goes out raving/dance parties, and everyone (includin urself) reckons she's really really hawwwt considered bad?

Both my housemates are like that, and they both have completed post-graduate studies, hold respectable jobs, are two of the most loyal people I know who also are unbelievably down to earth family orientated women who value respect and communication in their lives....

What's your definition of 'down-to-earth'?

I personally don't see someone who goes to rave parties as 'down-to-earth', don't know about others.

 

[Jago]

lol, i like the nice guys who don't get noticed because theres some kinda mystery behind them.. ^^ its really intriguing..

but yes.. =T i've had it with guys. im gonna become a lesbian nun

aren't nuns suppose to be celibate?

Definately innocent girls.
I'll rather wait a year for a innocent girl than f--- a bad girl for a year who's been f---ed countless times by others.

In fact, mz_bubbletea, you look like my type.

you're outer your league dude. But gl anyway.



Anyway, i like the nice girls just because i know they have a wild (really horny)side

 

[Tusitula]

that's a myth mate. either that, or i have been hitting the wrong ball all along.

 

[Jago]

nah, its not. I think you haven't been digging deep enough. Although a select few are asexuals....

 

[Raiks]

What's your definition of 'down-to-earth'?

I personally don't see someone who goes to rave parties as 'down-to-earth', don't know about others.

Well, both of my housemates hang around the apartment, play playstation with the other housemates, enjoys sitting in front of the tv watching a movie with some homemade popcorn, and discussing the random ways of the world, enjoy a stable work environment, goes to the gym 3 days a week, and is quite happy spending the entire weekend indoors, going to the rugby or cricket, at the beach or socialising with friends at a bbq, or going out to a rave... they're both down to earth in my opinion or is my interpretation different to yours.