guys and girlfriends + the other girl (1 Viewer)

[OZGIRL86]

The guy you got with, in my opinion, must not value his relationship with his girlfriend v. highly.

Yeah I agree.

 

[beccaxx]

sofe sounded like she was interrogating! whoa.

i think as the random girl, i would feel guilty if my random hook up led to a relationship breaking up. as the random, i dont think i could hook up with some1 in a relo.

then again, depending on the circumstances, i may not even no they are in a relo.

best not to random it

 

[mmm_sofay]

sofe sounded like she was interrogating! whoa.

i think as the random girl, i would feel guilty if my random hook up led to a relationship breaking up. as the random, i dont think i could hook up with some1 in a relo.

then again, depending on the circumstances, i may not even no they are in a relo.

best not to random it

i wasnt interrogating on anything, i swear!
he came onto me!
and i didnt know he had a gf till later...

 

[beccaxx]

sorry sofe i ment interrogating the imsickofyr12 person

 

[mmm_sofay]

sorry sofe i ment interrogating the imsickofyr12 person

oh, yes.
yes i was.
he was the only guy who answered and said he pashes randoms with gfs, so i was/am curious as to why he does it.
he obvioulsy cant answer for all the guys, but he gave me an answer for one guy.

 

[lourai*87]

lol i was wanting to ask the same question. You know...i was thinking about it. And i realise that if i had a bf who hooked up with a random then i would be more cut if feelings were involved (with the random) than not.

Ok im so tired..i dont remember what i wanted to say anymore. Im a female. i dont think my opinion counts here =p (IPT falls me asleep =p)

 

[Dreamerish*~]

I would be hurt either way, feelings or no feelings.

If a guy was considerate of his girlfriend's feelings, even if he isn't serious about the relationship, he should not be messing around.

 

[ogmzergrush]

Can't really see a reason for it myself, unless the person just doesn't care that much about the relationship they're in. Alternatively, maybe they just have different limits in their relationship to those that make sense to me.

 

[Dreamerish*~]

Can't really see a reason for it myself, unless the person just doesn't care that much about the relationship they're in. Alternatively, maybe they just have different limits in their relationship to those that make sense to me.

Even if they don't care about the relationship, or expect it to last only a couple of weeks, they still should be considerate enough to restrain from kissing or having sex with any other girls.

If you want someone else, break it off first. If you want your girlfriend, restrain yourself. If you want both, tough luck.

 

[ogmzergrush]

Even if they don't care about the relationship, or expect it to last only a couple of weeks, they still should be considerate enough to restrain from kissing or having sex with any other girls.

If you want someone else, break it off first. If you want your girlfriend, restrain yourself. If you want both, tough luck.

Oh, well that's very obvious, but (for once), I was attempting to stop short of saying obviously the person would have to be an inconsiderate dickhead.

It's not something I think is at all appropriate, but I tend to take that sort of thing much more seriously than a lot of people I know, so I try to moderate the way I express my opinion (Sometimes).

 

[sped_kid01]

The only reason i wouldnt do it, is because i wouldnt be with my bf in the 1st place if i wanted to cheat on him/hook up with other people.

and vice versa

 

[xox_eMz_xox]

sometimes il think about mayb another guy n the possibility.. but id never actually go any further then my day dreams... but its not jus guys alot of girls i know have cheated before..

 

[Dreamerish*~]

sometimes il think about mayb another guy n the possibility.. but id never actually go any further then my day dreams... but its not jus guys alot of girls i know have cheated before..

Didn't you say in the other thread that you cheated on your last boyfriend?

 

[xox_eMz_xox]

Didn't you say in the other thread that you cheated on your last boyfriend?

oh yeh i was referin to my current boyfriend here..i would never cheat on him

 

[xox_eMz_xox]

kind of shows there is hope.. people do change n can stop their cheatin ways... i was young n didnt care much then, iv changed alot..

 

[katie tully]

not that it bothers that i was the other girl.
but why do guys with girlfriends pash other girls?
then go back to their girlfriend?

is it some sort of power feeling, knowing that they can still pick up when they have a girlfriend?

liar, liar pants on fire