How can i begin the convo? (1 Viewer)

[pet0503]

On my previous thread, i asked is it okay for a girl to ask a guy out.
THANK YOU VERY MUCH TO PEOPLE WHO GAVE SOOOO MUCH GREAT ADVICE!

but now, i have no idea about how to begin a conversation....
can u guys help please?
I see him every morning at the bus stop.....

THANK U AGAIN

 

[jessyy]

id start with... "hey"... simple.

you dont script out what you going to say. you just let it flow.

have you not talked to this guy at all?? how do you expect to ask him out if you cannot start a conversation with him?

im not trying to be mean but, your making it harder for yourself.

 

[Smithereens]

Hey....lets fuck?

 

[frankenstein]

id start with... "hey"... simple.

you dont script out what you going to say. you just let it flow.

have you not talked to this guy at all?? how do you expect to ask him out if you cannot start a conversation with him?

im not trying to be mean but, your making it harder for yourself.

Agreed. If shez cute, it'll be just fine otherwise not so fine....

 

[scaredytiger]

go to xkcd.com

buy a tshirt saying "not antisocial, just shy (YOU CAN TALK TO ME!)"

lolz.

nah...
just say hi. smiles are always good.

see how it goes from there...

of course, being me, id go up to them and say "shove over!" with a grin on my face. i wouldnt suggest that unless youre a retard like me.

yeah...just ask general questions and go from there

 

[ElGronko]

"Hey...has the bus come yet?...OMG I SAID CUM!!!!!!!!!!!!"

 

[scaredytiger]

"Hey...has the bus come yet?...OMG I SAID CUM!!!!!!!!!!!!"

roflmonkey!

 

[pet0503]

Hey....lets fuck?

ahh...no.....not that?!!

 

[scaredytiger]

ahhh............no...not that?!

honestly hun, just say hi. ask him a few general questions. etc.

oh yeah. dont pretend. and smile. smiles make people happy and relaxed.

 

[Zrap]

Flash him then run away, his bound to remember you.

 

[jessyy]

just be yourself.. smile heaps.. bag him out, tease him etc make it fun!! dont be all serious and youll be fine.

just dont scream if you get nervous.. ie "ZOMG GO OUT WITH ME", yeah dont do that..

 

[Pace_T]

dont plan on what to say it'll probably come out all forced and weird. just talk about whatever comes to your mind at that moment, provided it isnt a stupid thought.

 

[latvia]

"Your fly is open."

 

[icraig88]

haha, after over a year of seeing him at the bus stop and not talking to him, thats a great few words to say to him. honestly, at least he'll get the picture that you've taken interest in him.

 

[pet0503]

Kill his pets and then write your love note to him in their blood.

(Include parts of their body to show that your love is serious)

thats not funny-_-

 

[TacoTerrorist]

Agreed. If shez cute, it'll be just fine otherwise not so fine....

Make sure he doesn't have the mentality of this bloke first.

 

[scaredytiger]

seconded. guys who base whether they will have a convo with someone on their looks are shitwaffles. and most likely not looking for a conversation, but something different entirely.

of course... if one were to start a convo with "do you have soft-core porn magazines in your bag?" im sure that would raise eyebrows.

the fact that when a guy friend of mine pulled out a zoo magazine today at the bus stop he got more interest from my female best friend than anyone else is hilarious.

 

[champo14]

just say hi or if the bus is running late and you see him look at his watch, just say something relating to the bus being late and then continue the convo. just talk to him as if your talking to your friends, its not hard.

Way to show him how interesting you are...

 

[jumb]

seconded. guys who base whether they will have a convo with someone on their looks are shitwaffles. and most likely not looking for a conversation, but something different entirely.

Hahah yeah, cause there's totally straight guys out there that talk to ugly chicks for their "conversation".

 

[scaredytiger]

Hahah yeah, cause there's totally straight guys out there that talk to ugly chicks for their "conversation".

because yes. everyone whos not "cute" is ugly.
and no straight guys place value in a girl's personality - they all want "hot airheads". -_-'