How do I find a man who stays fun and interesting? (1 Viewer)

[AAO89]

I've had several boyfriends in the past. In the beginning, they're fun to be around and we talk for hours, and we are practically inseparable. But after 3 or 4 months they seem to change. They don't want to go out and do things with me as much, do fun things, practically ignore me on AIM, ect. It seems like they go into a "I have her forever, I don't have to try anymore" stage, then they're all shocked and confused when I dump them.

 

[Gay Captain]

troll

 

[Enteebee]

Dear AAO89,

I won't get bored of you, and I will always be at your beck and call. Can I be your boyfriend? However, since I'm a pussy "Beta Male" with no confidence who's afraid to make a move on girls IRL, when we meet I'll be too awkward and lame to do anything. Because you're probably fairly nice, you'll let me continue to be your friend, and all the while I will secretly resent you, fume about how you ignore me, and fap to tentacle rape porn imagining that I'm the all-powerful demon and you're my deserving prey.

Will you let me be your (boy)friend?

Shy awkward hugs (no kisses),
Enteebee

 

[DownInFlames]

Don't get so intimately attatched at first. Cause you may think you know them well, but only time will really tell.

 

[Enteebee]

um nah guys.

 

[DownInFlames]

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[Evilo]

But after 3 or 4 months they seem to change. They don't want to go out and do things with me as much, do fun things, practically ignore me on AIM, ect..

Well hes probably setling down a bit tbh - i.e. they've pulled out the big guns to pick you up, but now its not needed as much. I think its just natural for that to occur. Either speak to them, or try and be more realistic i.e. the guy won't sweep you off your feet every time you see him.

As per the AIM comment. If i spoke to you everytime i went on instant messaging, you would eventually get sick of talking to me. Everyone needs time to themselves.

 

[Pace_T]

i only had 1 girlfriend that i talked to over online instant messaging. she use to write like 10 lines for every 1 line i wrote. it just made me not wanna write anything anymore. so maybe u should try not messaging so much (if u do..)
its like face to face conversations, some girls talk heaps and us guys just agree with whatever theyre saying but its making us look boring

 

[chicky_pie]

They probably think you're boring when you have sex with them.

 

[ElGronko]

find someone who lives a high risk lifestyle.

probably be more fun.

 

[boris]

I've had several boyfriends in the past. In the beginning, they're fun to be around and we talk for hours, and we are practically inseparable. But after 3 or 4 months they seem to change. They don't want to go out and do things with me as much, do fun things, practically ignore me on AIM, ect. It seems like they go into a "I have her forever, I don't have to try anymore" stage, then they're all shocked and confused when I dump them.

lol, AIM.

 

[ElGronko]

Yeah, I assumed AIM meant copypasta.

 

[boris]

Using an inferior instant message system, of course you're only going to attract wiener patrols.

 

[Gay Captain]

The exact same thread was on 4chan the night she posted it

 

[decypher]

By not being a feminist.

 

[sja]

I've had several boyfriends in the past. In the beginning, they're fun to be around and we talk for hours, and we are practically inseparable. But after 3 or 4 months they seem to change. They don't want to go out and do things with me as much, do fun things, practically ignore me on AIM, ect. It seems like they go into a "I have her forever, I don't have to try anymore" stage, then they're all shocked and confused when I dump them.

Why would the man who is fun and entertaining all the time want to hang with a boring chick like you, when he can attract many better looking females?

 

[T-mac01]

I've had several boyfriends in the past. In the beginning, they're fun to be around and we talk for hours, and we are practically inseparable. But after 3 or 4 months they seem to change. They don't want to go out and do things with me as much, do fun things, practically ignore me on AIM, ect. It seems like they go into a "I have her forever, I don't have to try anymore" stage, then they're all shocked and confused when I dump them.

You can't expect guys to make you laugh constantly like you're a 5 year old child. Just grow up. Maybe he's not into you anymore or conversely, he might've gotten more comfortable with you and actually started being himself. Do you not realise that for many guys, being funny can be exhaustive? There are more things a guy could have in mind apart from relationship mattes.
And what sort of fun things did you do with him?

 

[Zrap]

Gotta be more laid-back.

 

[ElGronko]

You can't expect guys to make you laugh constantly like you're a 5 year old child. Just grow up. Maybe he's not into you anymore or conversely, he might've gotten more comfortable with you and actually started being himself. Do you not realise that for many guys, being funny can be exhaustive? There are more things a guy could have in mind apart from relationship mattes.
And what sort of fun things did you do with him?

Exhaustive?

What, do memories joke books or something? You shouldn't have to try to be funny, things just come to you based on a situation, for example, "shut up Tmac you silly fuckwit". Spontaneous, unstrenuous comic brilliance.

 

[T-mac01]

Exhaustive?

What, do memories joke books or something? You shouldn't have to try to be funny, things just come to you based on a situation, for example, "shut up Tmac you silly fuckwit". Spontaneous, unstrenuous comic brilliance.

I know that. But it takes a certain mood and attitude to be spontaneous. It's like practicing music when you don't feel like it.