how do u tell some1 u like them? (1 Viewer)

[thack]

Inclined to agree, sounds very crush-ish.
Remember that even if she doesn't have a boyfriend, she could be completely disinterested. Or a lesbian. Statistically speaking, it's more likely the first. One way or another, don't feel bad if it doesn't happen. Other stuff has a tendancy of jumping up anyway.

Actually, use the same logic and go for it! Give it a frigging shot by talking to her or asking her out or whatever takes your fancy, if it doesn't work, bugger it! Life goes on. And if you spend the rest of your life wondering what could have been, you've probably got a dodgy perspective on things

 

[Collin]

I'd take it slow. Like people have said, get to know her.. just become closer to her in general, and start flirting. If she is a keen recipient of your moves.. take things even more intimate. If she rejects.. then well either she's shy or she doesn't like you obviously.

 

[hbk_ace]

yea just give it a shot, u are who u are, if it didnt work out to bad, ure to good for her anyhows. but just be sure to treat her right if u do go out with her.

so many ppl just ont care about their partners

 

[TruthIsOutThere]

If it has only been 3 weeks and you have only seen her 3 times, you don't really know her, so it is definitely a crush!! not that there's anything wrong with it.

The objective of life is to make yourself happy, so it is not a matter of it being a crush or not. Your goal is to score her no matter she's taken or not.

Listen to the ppl here, DO NOT tell her you like her or anything as embarrassing as that, this will only make her distance herself from you especially at this early stage. funni_boi's plan is pretty good but only if it makes sense for you to ask her for the notes, it would look strange if you don't ask your friends there.

Just keep talking to her for a few more weeks, get to know her first, you might not even like her after that. Also, IMPORTANT!!, infiltrate her group of friends if she has any. That way, you break into a whole new circle and may have access to even better chics. If you impress her friends enough, they will put in a good word for you. Peer pressure will get to her eventually if she has any feelings for you, no matter how little. Yeh, so just be friends with her and get closer and closer, flirt, flirt, flirt then ask her out. Wait for her signals before going ahead!!

 

[z.co]

its a crush..

invite out one day to somewhere that u goin to..
then tell her how u feel.. and try to make her understand....

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and if she dont understand.. MAKE HER UNDERSTAND...

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and if she dont get the point.. then introduce her to yoyur frend.. MR BRICK.. im sure she'll understand by then. ahhahaha

 

[Jase]

MR BRICK? whacking her over the head aint gonna help the physical appearances factor.. Try introducing her to Mr. Rophynol. He's one charming fellow.

Anyway.. the best way, is to get along with her friends, and make your friends ( real friends ) get along with her friends.. and then you have a big outing, like watch a movie.. or .. some gay crap like that. Go to Galaxy World and show her your DDR skills. Go to Karaoke and show her your awesome voice. And this way.. she won't feel embarrased because she has all her friends AND your friends to laugh at you with her!

 

[AsyLum]

MR BRICK? whacking her over the head aint gonna help the physical appearances factor.. Try introducing her to Mr. Rophynol. He's one charming fellow.

Anyway.. the best way, is to get along with her friends, and make your friends ( real friends ) get along with her friends.. and then you have a big outing, like watch a movie.. or .. some gay crap like that. Go to Galaxy World and show her your DDR skills. Go to Karaoke and show her your awesome voice. And this way.. she won't feel embarrased because she has all her friends AND your friends to laugh at you with her!

nah Mrs. Chloroform works so much faster.

 

[santaslayer]

Wise words from a wise man:

Appreciate, Congratulate, Marinate, Dictate and then Consumate.

 

[alien]

first of all this does sound like a crush.
if you want real advice, take it from a girl, all this rahypnol crap is dumb (i'm hoping it's all a joke).
get to know her and follow her leads. you guys think girls are impossible, but they're pretty easy to read. flirt with her and if she flirts back try taking it up a level. you have to be careful though because some girls will flirt back for fun, and then freak out when you say you're serious. but you say this girl is shy so she probably won't be into flirting as a sport. hint: great relationships start with great friendships. just don't get stuck in the rut of 'just a friend'. even if it's just as a friend, she will love the male attention, so long as you don't get possessive or use bricks or rahypnol like any of these people have suggested.
good luck!

 

[+Po1ntDeXt3r+]

flirting is a good sport.. as long as no one gets the wrong impression...

shes a crush.. get to kno her better.. ask questions.. bout her in general.. cos if ure not interested in her.. but for her superfiicial parts.. then its a crush esp after 3 weeks

and spend more time.. with her.. study with her.. be mature.. cos mabbe she doesnt usualli go for young guys..

 

[Enoch]

poke her in the freaking eye with ur wang
and say "DO IT "
and she'll be like wtf and den reply by saying " IN DA MOWWF!!!"

 

[im_a_choobie]

MR BRICK? whacking her over the head aint gonna help the physical appearances factor.. Try introducing her to Mr. Rophynol. He's one charming fellow.

Anyway.. the best way, is to get along with her friends, and make your friends ( real friends ) get along with her friends.. and then you have a big outing, like watch a movie.. or .. some gay crap like that. Go to Galaxy World and show her your DDR skills. Go to Karaoke and show her your awesome voice. And this way.. she won't feel embarrased because she has all her friends AND your friends to laugh at you with her!

argh i dont have DDR or karoake skills

 

[dave_119]

never tell a female u like them... play hard to get. if u tell them, they'll chew u up and spit u out

 

[hipsta_jess]

args, girls are very strange creatures. don't question why we do what we do, why we think what we think, why we say what we say... etc

 

[PookieMonster]

args, girls are very strange creatures. don't question why we do what we do, why we think what we think, why we say what we say... etc

why? because as a chick, we already do enough psycho analysing of what guys say to compensate the other half of the population?

 

[hipsta_jess]

yup, pretty much.

 

[jellybeenz]

Nah Year 12 should be about teaching guys how to treat girls. How to say what they want and be clear, instead of being so goddam vague about everything! Then girls wouldn't have to psycho-analyse everything.

Sorry about veering from the topic...

 

[flipsyde]

agreed... .

 

[wrong_turn]

understanding the basics of knowing how a girl may react would be much more applicable for some year 12 guys.

such as if a guy says " suck on my big one" reaction then would be a slap in the face
if a guy touches a girls arse. reaction would be a slap in the face.
if a guy asks a girl out. reaction would be a slap in the face.
if a guy flirts with a girl. reaction would be a slap in the face.
if a guy says hello. reaction would be a slap on the face.

my conclusion is that girls don't like slapping guys on the face.

NB: yes i am a guy
i do not have any grudges against girls
stop looking at me like i'm a crazed moron.

as shuter would say in the same situation, refer tot he ladder theory.

 

[Shuter]

as shuter would say in the same situation, refer tot he ladder theory.

Correct, guys in general aren't that hard.