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how do YOU flirt, as in you personally

hey, i've noticed that people flirt sooo differently. i was in a bakery the other day with a female friend and when we walked away she was like "do you think she's hot"(in reference to the girl sreving me) and i say "she's alright" then my friend told me that it was so obvious that she was flirting with me and i like flirting but i could not see it in any way but my friend asserts that as a female she thought it was obvious. so how do YOU flirt?
 
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sitting/standing close to

playful punching/hitting

excessive smiling/joking around

teasing about other girls/guys

= flirting :D
 

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Watch the wrists. If she's really into you look into her eyes and her pupils will dilate.
 

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2sense said:
Watch the wrists. If she's really into you look into her eyes and her pupils will dilate.
you're strange....

i flirt by just constantly being silly around the person. and sometimes i dont even know im doing it because i tend to be joking and acting stupid with people normally. but apparently everyone can tell when im flirting.
 

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Girls flirt all different types of ways...for example

*they flip their hair in your direction, revealing their neck in the process (which is an erogenous zone).
*if they are sitting down, they may point their feet towards you and might even flash a bit of thigh by crossing their legs (that is if they are wearing a skirt).

Personally, I flirt by teasing or making jokes with the other person, plenty of eye contact and smiling, giving them more attention when we are in a group situation...
Unfortunately the way I flirt usually coincides with how I act around my friends or random people (well perhaps not the 'giving the undivided attention'). This has triggered problems with some of my guy friends in the past :(
 

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nick1048 said:
females flirt in ways males can not understand... They are so subtle >.< y ohhh y!

i dont think thats right

flirting is obvious- whats the problem is either:

-ur not interested in them
-ur interested but uve convinced urself u dont have a shot
-ur drunk


oh and ur drunk- personally when ur out and about having a good time its hard to judge whether someone likes u or likes u just for tonight- lol which is good either way.

i just think lets say if u know someone and see them regularly its much easier to judge if theyre flirting or not
 

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azzie said:
I got....
"You're a master at intimate conversation and verbal enticement.
You seduce with words, by getting people to open up to you.
By establishing this deep connection quickly, people feel under your power.
And then you've got them exactly where you want them"
same .
 
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You don't really try to seduce people... it just seems to happen.
Fun loving and free spirited, you bring out the inner child in people.
You are spontaneous, sincere, and unpretentious - a hard combo to find!
People drop their guard around you, and find themselves falling fast.
 

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guess whos back said:
You don't really try to seduce people... it just seems to happen.
Fun loving and free spirited, you bring out the inner child in people.
You are spontaneous, sincere, and unpretentious - a hard combo to find!
People drop their guard around you, and find themselves falling fast.
I got that too.
 

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Whoa.

Your Seduction Style: The Charismatic

You're beyond seductive, you're downright magnetic!
You life live and approach seduction on a grand scale.
You have an inner self confidence and energy that most people lack
It's these talents that make you seem extraordinary - and you truly are!
 

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Your Seduction Style: Siren / Rake

You possess an unbridled sensuality that appeals to many.
The minute you meet anyone, you can make the crave you almost immediately.
You give others the chance to lose control with you... spiraling into carnal bliss.
A dangerous lover, you both fascinate and scare those you attract.
 

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Your Seduction Style: Ideal Lover

You seduce people by tapping into their dreams and desires.
And because of this sensitivity, you can be the ideal lover for anyone you seek.
You are a shapeshifter - bringing romance, adventure, spirituality to relationships.
It all depends on who your with, and what their vision of a perfect relationship is.
 

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I got: The natural

You don't really try to seduce people... it just seems to happen.
Fun loving and free spirited, you bring out the inner child in people.
You are spontaneous, sincere, and unpretentious - a hard combo to find!
People drop their guard around you, and find themselves falling fast.

strange...im shy as anything when it comes to flirting...usually if i really like someone im more likely to avoid them than anything else dont ask me why.
 

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I playfully bat my eyelids, then thrust a rag into their face while asking "Does this smell like chloroform to you?"

Works every time. Best flirting method/pickup line ever.
 

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