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flipsyde

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Sigh I dont know what to make of this situation... I dont know How I should be feeling... Im so confused. Any thoughts would be greatly appreciated...


Right so its year12 formal and my date (whos only a friend) rings me up at 10pm the night before the formal and tells me they dont wanna go anymore. There was no reason, and they said that there wasnt one and that they just didnt want be around strange people that they didnt know... fair enough IF HE HADNT OF TOLD ME THE NIGHT BEFORE!!!! I was really peeved at this stage but then just let it go and decided to have fun without him, and it was great.

Anyway the aftermath- for months we'd just been fighting in general and he was saying horrible stuff about me and treatign me like crap, so i told him that the friendship was over. My best friend knows how I feel about him ( aas in I dont want anythign to do with him anymore) but I found out that shes totally into him and calls him on the phone but he rejected her and hurt her (she never told me). Thsi friend that told me this also told me that he wont stop talking about how Im not talking to him anymore etc etc...

Im just so lost about the situation... any thoughts?
 

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wow, seems sorta like a three way thing. Look if I was u I would tell ur friend to get over him because if this is the way he treats ppl then he aint worth it. I'm not too good with these things but I always noe that it hurts less in the short term then long term heartache (experience) its your choice but I'd talk to my bestie about it if its really bothering u
 

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heh but she doesnt know that I know and shell know that our other friend told me
 

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yeah but weigh up the costs. Trust is one thing but when its to save someone from heartache u need to step in. Yes its a difficult decision but u really should make ur friend aware :( I would want to know if i was in dat situation
 

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well that guy sounds like a jerk!

umm... it's lucky that you know your friendship is over with him. and i think your friend should realise how horrible he is.
 

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Never speak to the guy again. Then, realise that you hate men, go out with the other chick and come to my place for a "sexy party." Just you, your friend and me. No strings attached ;)
 

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thorrnydevil said:
Never speak to the guy again. Then, realise that you hate men, go out with the other chick and come to my place for a "sexy party." Just you, your friend and me. No strings attached ;)
i wanna come too :D
 

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flipsyde said:
Sigh I dont know what to make of this situation... I dont know How I should be feeling... Im so confused. Any thoughts would be greatly appreciated...


Right so its year12 formal and my date (whos only a friend) rings me up at 10pm the night before the formal and tells me they dont wanna go anymore. There was no reason, and they said that there wasnt one and that they just didnt want be around strange people that they didnt know... fair enough IF HE HADNT OF TOLD ME THE NIGHT BEFORE!!!! I was really peeved at this stage but then just let it go and decided to have fun without him, and it was great.

Anyway the aftermath- for months we'd just been fighting in general and he was saying horrible stuff about me and treatign me like crap, so i told him that the friendship was over. My best friend knows how I feel about him ( aas in I dont want anythign to do with him anymore) but I found out that shes totally into him and calls him on the phone but he rejected her and hurt her (she never told me). Thsi friend that told me this also told me that he wont stop talking about how Im not talking to him anymore etc etc...

Im just so lost about the situation... any thoughts?
sounds like a cock
 

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I have the best idea. You and your friend can have sex with me to get over him!
 

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Not-That-Bright said:
On the other hand i have now made my way into 2/3 quotes in ur sig.... i'm almost there.

haha not for long!
 

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