How to break up? (1 Viewer)

[golferjim]

Do you break up:

In person,
On the Phone,
E-mail,
msn?

 

[pinkblinkbarbie]

i break up with my boyfriends in person but i have been dumped by sms and on the phone and by his friend telling me

 

[Katie123]

i have never had to do it
but dont be an total idiot and do it over the phone
face up to it and do it in person i think

 

[OZGIRL86]

in person, face to face

 

[Ziff]

SMS: You might regret spending the 25c.

'Sry, not wrkin out. We're brking up. Bye.'

Sort, simple, cheap, time-efficient, poignant. Best of all the other party doesn't really get a right-of-reply.

 

[neeja]

always in person is the way to go. no matter what your excuse, you are cowardly if you do it any other way

 

[tammer]

face-to-face without a doubt. you're spineless if you do it any other way

 

[ignition]

dump them after a session of sex.

 

[tammer]

or during...?

 

[ignition]

lol nuh after.. in the morning..

 

[soha]

i dont care how i get dumped
its gonna happen reguardless
they have the intention to dump me on the fone sms msn by email whatever
it will happen
so they may as well take the easier alternative
same goes 4 me

 

[tennille]

In person seems to be more genuine. You could easily lie on the phone/net, etc.

 

[Jase]

lie about dumping them?

 

[ignition]

man just enjoy getting laid while u can b4 u guys officially break up.

 

[tennille]

lie about dumping them?

"It's not you...it's me". Aka, not telling the truth about why they are breaking up with them...

 

[Ziff]

I think people don't respond well to when you give the real, legitimate answer. Saying, "look, seriously, I'm just very bored of this relationship and you're not really what I'm looking for" doesn't go down as well as the cliched and sanitised "it's me, not you". We're culturally conditioned to accept and use the easier, desensitised version, and frankly, that's what I prefer to do

 

[tennille]

Yeah, I guess so...but it is too cliched. I mean, you wouldn't go off and say "you're boring", but you wouldn't use a cliched line like that...so that leaves you with no reasoning at all for your break up

 

[joujou_84]

ive neva really understood that whole "its me....... not u" excuse.......

 

[Ranger Stacie]

i think, if they asked you out via sms then it is ok to end it via sms.

 

[Ziff]

Hahhaha use the medium of the relationship