Not-That-Bright
Andrew Quah
Dude, this is someone who has purposefully cheated on another person while saying they are in love with some poor guy just like you, and they've done it TWICE. It's about protecting yourself from heartache, I dunno what world you live in, but I know heaps of girls who haven't cheated on anyone ever, why the hell would I risk it going out with this two-time cheater? Sure, I may love them, but in this sort of situation you need to put your head before your dick and save yourself some heartbreak.I hate bursting bubbles...but what world do you live in? If they've "cheated twice" they're going in the stay-away-from pile? hahahaha
Well you don't have to think about it, but It makes fair enough sense that if you do think about it you might not keep going out with cheaters?I'd rather be with somebody that made me happy, rather than even thinking about that shit.
When someone has cheated on someone, it's not like some completely private thing, the person whom was cheated on (unless they get back together), will probably rant and rave to their friends etc. As you were going out together, your friend circles probably are all at least slightly connected. You will find out, and it will be trustworthy.How do you even know they've cheated twice? You're getting to know them, in what is becoming a relationship, and either they tell you, or you hear from somebody else, you'd just drop them for that?
No of course not, but I wouldn't want my girlfriend passionately kissing some other guy.. I mean I'm not going to passionately kiss other girls. The type of relationship I am interested in (and I think most people in this thread) involves two people, whom have agreed to a mutual relationship where you do not do sexual acts with others... If you prefer 'looser' relationships than that's cool, your girlfriend can go around passionately kissing guys, and you can go around passionately kissing girls, and maybe there won't be any fights or anything. Personally I don't want that, I want just a girl and I want myself to be the only romantically involved guy in her life =/Let me just take a wild guess, but if you're in a relationship and you kiss somebody else, you'd term that cheating, right? *sigh*
As for if my gf did passionately kiss some guy, it wouldn't be a break up thing, but it would make me pissed off and i'd at least want an appology or something? If she continued to go around passionately kissing everyone I would assume she doesn't want the same relationship as me and call it off (assuming i'm not blind).
edit: haha I thought you asked if I would break up with a girl if she kissed somebody... not if it's cheating.
As I said above, if you are in the type of relationship where both of you deem that ok, then sure thing. Personally I believe kissing (usually a somewhat passionate act) hurts a monogamous relationship, and continual attacks of this kind on this relationship will lead to a breakup.
Habbitual cheating is not history, it is a part of that persons persona, right now, that does not simply go away when you enter into a relationship with them. It is an issue that needs to be addressed and not ignored.I don't agree with cheating, I have never cheated, I have never stayed with somebody who has cheated on me, but what somebody does in the past is HISTORY, make your own relationship, define yourselves through each other, together.
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