If you've lost your virginity, at what age? (4 Viewers)

[stella8h8chang]

I'm a virgin and have made a commitment to stay that way until I'm married.

Basically I see benefits of both partners in a relationship getting married as virgins.

Yeah, I agree. I'm staying a virgin until I get married - there are too many emotional ties that happen if you lose your virginity to someone, and if you break the relationship off later on, I reckon it would take a large emotional toll. Abstinence also prevents pressure on "when" to lose your virginity, as you just set it on your wedding night, which is not something that's particularly mutable if you know what I mean.

Oh, and anna_banana, I'm really sorry to hear about the atrocity you suffered. I hope you're OK now. And I think you should still be allowed to consider yourself a virgin, as you did not give consent to the loss of your virginity.

 

[AsyLum]

The type of loser that makes up 50% of this forum.

Actually around 60-70% of members dont venture out of the subject areas and post <10 posts.

 

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[AsyLum]

"Daddy" was the first thing off your tongue wasnt it

 

[Tulipa]

...there are too many emotional ties that happen if you lose your virginity to someone, and if you break the relationship off later on, I reckon it would take a large emotional toll. Abstinence also prevents pressure on "when" to lose your virginity...

i lost my virginity when i was 16 (still am..) and broke up with the guy two weeks later. didn't really have any emotional connections to him and afterwards only felt resentment because of the way he'd broken it off, not because of the whole "we had sex therefore it must be weird" thing. at the time i didn't ever feel any pressure to lose it either...

it's impressive that u can wait and have the faith in yourself to but for a lot of people i don't think it's that big a deal to just have sex

 

[cabanaboy21]

who and when was that tulipa u never told me about that... i lost mine at my yr 11 formal afters to a friends date.. wasnt a big deal

 

[jumb]

it's impressive that u can wait and have the faith in yourself to but for a lot of people i don't think it's that big a deal to just have sex

It's stupid when people put so much pressure on sex. They're only hurting themselves.

 

[Minai]

im wondering how long can u go for in a relationship before u have sex? 1 week? 2 weeks? a year? several years?

Depends on the relationship, and the values you both hold.

I waited about 3 months until we both knew we were gonna be together a long time.

 

[Tulipa]

who and when was that tulipa u never told me about that... i lost mine at my yr 11 formal afters to a friends date.. wasnt a big deal

shhh pat.. no one knows me on here and i didnt tell you for a reason... wasn't a big deal and he wasn't an important guy.

 

[Meads]

i was 16, waited 5 months, top night, lasted ages, no regrets

 

[Agnes2810]

i thik ive written in this thread a few times, with the same answer, well i was 16

 

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top night, lasted ages

bit of a demon in the sack aye?

 

[sped_kid01]

bit of a demon in the sack aye?

i can just imagine how "long" it lasted

 

[Meads]

hehe...who can say without sounding like a toss...i spose they need some sort of device you can screw that tells you how good you are...like a breathalizer sorta...

 

[INXS]

hehe...who can say without sounding like a toss...i spose they need some sort of device you can screw that tells you how good you are...like a breathalizer sorta...

An orgasmatron sounds cool.

 

[colboltic_dream]

I was 15.. well like 15 in like a month. I dont regret it and im still with the guy.

 

[Atticus.]

17..........

 

[.:newii]

lets see i lost my virginity 3 days before i turned 17, so technically i was 16

 

[dazzassj6]

see every1 hear all said they lost it a couple of days before their bday or wateva, its liek a early bday present or sumfin lol its always around ur bday.... hm look forward to ur bday pplz lol

 

[jumb]

see every1 hear all said they lost it a couple of days before their bday or wateva, its liek a early bday present or sumfin lol its always around ur bday.... hm look forward to ur bday pplz lol

I look forward to you writing a post that makes sense.