I don't understand why he could not wait for just a few weeks. But i guess that he probably needs lots of attention so I understand it from that view point. Yeah, the whole ignoring thing was unnecessary. He should have told me it instead of ignoring me and maybe that wouldn't of hit me so hard emotional-wise. But what is there to do now. He can't turn back time and erase what he has done.iambored said:No it wouldn't have been selfish of you. If he wants to be in a relationship he doesn't have the right to have casual things on the side even if it's a long distance relationship.
He 'nearly kissed a girl' and felt so bad that he ignored you? It sounds suss to me.
Sorry to be cynical but I'm a one chance and you blow it person when it comes to relationships (to be in the situation, as always, is different...).
Anyway, just something freaky...he bought me this scented candle in this glass holder for my birthday and then the other day whilst I was placing it away on the shelf as I did not want to see it for a while, one side of the glass shattered. Maybe it was somewhat symbolic of the breakup/casual thing. I felt kinda bad that it did and was thinking maybe I should replace it...but it wouldn't be the same would it?