Is it ok?? (1 Viewer)

[Crazy4U]

Ok say you used to go out with this guy, you broke up with him and he is going out with someone new..... he still wants to go to the formal with you and you both have a history of not being able to keep your hands off eachother when you should.... wud it still be a good idea to take him to your formal and afterparty knowing you will both be drunk.....?

 

[mayhemily]

hmm prob not a good idea... if you both think you can control yourselves then thats alright, but with alcomohol... if he has a new gf why does he want to go to the formal with you? maybe he should see what the gf thinks about it too.

 

[Crazy4U]

I think we are going together for memories and stuff.... i dunno i mean i know we could have a heap of fun, just worried a little bit about the alcohol factor

 

[_muse_]

if it was me, i certainly wouldnt go with him, especially considering he has a new girlfriend. but really and truly its up to you... i wouldnt trust myself sober let alone with alcohol added

 

[Tommy_Lamp]

why doesnt he take his new gf?

 

[Crazy4U]

why doesnt he take his new gf?

It's my formal not his... and she is in yr 11 so she aint got a formal..... he aint at school no more

 

[Cyph]

why are you asking us? We can't tell you whether you're going to fuck him or not - and whether that's right or wrong.

 

[cko]

well i wouldn't. Just don't risk it. The most u do if u go to a formal with someone u ain't going out with is buy a corsage for them, sit next to them to eat, and maybe share a dance. full stop. I say, why risk it? if in doubt, don't.

 

[Cicciolina]

Nup, I think you knwo that you shouldn't either. It also kinda sounds like he just wants you to take him to your formal so he can go to the afterparty+alcohol stuff like that. Plus, with his girlfriend, the chances of it getting too messy are pretty high.

 

[porge]

if you dont like his new chic, i say do it

 

[yulia]

You're already questioning the ability to not do anything together, so the possibility that he is going to cheat on his girlfriend with you is very much present, isn't that setting off big alarm signals to you, like one saying "NO"?

 

[Loz#1]

why are you asking us? We can't tell you whether you're going to fuck him or not - and whether that's right or wrong.

What Cyph said. If you think it's bad, no. If you think it's good, yes.

 

[crazyhomo]

obviously you've still got a thing for him and want our approval to say that it's ok for you to get with him. well go ahead, i don't think any of us really care either way

 

[Lundy]

Dont say "get with"!!!!!! It annoys the holy bejeesus out of me!! IT DOESNT MAKE ANY SENSE!!

 

[mr_speedy]

why are you asking us? We can't tell you whether you're going to fuck him or not - and whether that's right or wrong.

amen brother

 

[Dave85]

it sounds 2 risky 2 me... and the fact he has a gf and u guys hav history and u will be drinking is a pretty bad mix. personally, if it was me, i wudnt. But then agian i only know wat u told us. u know the situation best. if u think u can control urself and just go as friends then i see know problem. i think weather u do or dont is really up 2 how u can conrtol urselves.

 

[Ranger Stacie]

go for it!

 

[porge]

ur not with neone, so ur int he clear
if hes gonna hook up with u, then hes the one cheating...
its a two sided thing.
he obviosuly knows something has a high chance of happening, if hes still gonna go, he obviously doesnt like this new chic much neway

 

[jhakka]

Don't go with someone who already has a boyfriend/girlfriend. The end.

 

[dark`secrets]

personally, i wouldnt make such a move esp in the case you describe.
things, sometimes get out of hands esp with alky so i would advise myself not to.
aww. damn urges

you'll only end up hurting more than one person and feeling like shit isnt the way to go.