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It's interesting to see how us teens write so much more in the relationships section than anywhere else. This is meant to be a "study help" place, yet we still manage to find an excessive amount of space for sex and love! Well done :) We are all being great teenagers.

Oh, and while I'm here, whats worse:

Being emotionally cheated on OR being physically cheated on?
 
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Originally posted by canisay_Elvis
It's interesting to see how us teens write so much more in the relationships section than anywhere else. This is meant to be a "study help" place, yet we still manage to find an excessive amount of space for sex and love! Well done :) We are all being great teenagers.

Oh, and while I'm here, whats worse:

Being emotionally cheated on OR being physically cheated on?
This is a study help place. It's a place to go when study becomes unbearable.
 

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Originally posted by ...
whats the difference between physically and emtionally cheated :confused:
errm the latter implies they just like someone and the former is when they actually do something about it
 

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Originally posted by Toodulu
errm the latter implies they just like someone and the former is when they actually do something about it
actually

emotionally cheated on - they fell in love with another
physically cheated on - they had sex with another

the question often asked is which would you prefer (if you were forced between these choices)

not what toodulu said
 

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Originally posted by Loz#1
And isn't there another thread about this?
yes most likely, i just discovered this place so i havn't seen one.

Originally posted by ...
whats the difference between physically and emtionally cheated :confused:
Emotional cheating: Having feelings 4 someone else
Physical cheating: kissing, having sex with... physical stuff ;)
 

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Originally posted by Link
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emotionally cheated on - they fell in love with another
physically cheated on - they had sex with another

the question often asked is which would you prefer (if you were forced between these choices)

not what toodulu said
haha okay. but isn't that what i said

anyway i reckon it's harmless to have feeling about other people, but if you respected the person you're dating enough you would restrain yourself from doing anything.
 

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but then what if it's only guilt, not respect that is holding them back?
I'd be more upset if my boyfriend was in love with someone else, than if he just had meaningless sex with someone.
 

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Originally posted by jhakka
This is a study help place. It's a place to go when study becomes unbearable.
ha ha ha! CHAMP!!

well, if you are physically cheated on, there had to be some degree of emotional cheating so i'd prob say physical.
 

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Originally posted by babygirrl **HoOchie**
i think they both cut u up equally as bad....:(
ditto

but i think being emotional cuts deeper
 

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if it was a one off (physically) then i'd say emotionally, especially if you had really deep feelings for the other person. physically, although still not good, there can be a lot of reasons behind it that aren't necessarily to do with you. emotionally suggests that there is something wrong in the relationship. however, prolonged physical cheating has to have emotional reasons attached to it, no matter what the circumstances, so if it was prolonged, i'd say physical.
 

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if its a reallly long relationship I think its normal to become "interested" in other people or "emotionally cheat"...if you actually did something about it t hen that would be worse
 

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mm i think it'd be worse to physically cheated on - cos it's something in their control. it means u didn't mean enough to them for them to refrain. but emotionally speaking, it is sthg beyond their control... they're not exactly to blame.
 

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