just a mate (1 Viewer)

[thejosiekiller]

yes it is emily

 

[Atotoi]

Especially when you link guys you like to John Howard lol...

 

[val_dramaqueen]

Especially when you link guys you like to John Howard lol...

*shudder*... john howard....

i don't love him! i don't! i don't! John Howard is not the "best mate" i've been talkign about! it's not!

 

[twiddla]

*shudder*... john howard....

i don't love him! i don't! i don't! John Howard is not the "best mate" i've been talkign about! it's not!

State of Denial tsk tsk

 

[kHiTs]

am i the only one around here who is only seen by guys as "The Mate"? the one you have a drink with but would never go out with? the one who's a laugh?

i am constantly "The Mate" and it's shit!!

anyone else in the same boat? any advice?

and also... dating a mate... good or bad?

ok...back to the original topic... dont you just hate it when the guy you like only sees you as a buddy and he's trying to hook you up with his mate who is just a buddy to you....omg!! i hate that!!

it sucks..you like someone, but they only see you as a friend
someone likes you, but you only see them as a friend...

if i believed in karma...i'd say thats one of them... you do it to others, they do it to you...sheezzz...crazy world!

 

[wrong_turn]

val if he's gonna go you might as well quesiton him. you got nothing to lose then, unless you intend to keep in touch in an intimate friendship *wink wink*

i did the same thing. i risked it, after a girl i liked left for another school. well i got rejected, but that is besides the point.

at least i did something about it

and came out 2nd best

 

[jumb]

if i believed in karma...i'd say thats one of them... you do it to others, they do it to you...sheezzz...crazy world!

That is SUCH a girl thing to say! It's not your fault for being shallow and not having the guts to tell this guy you like him, is it? The whole world's against you, yeah, that must be it!

 

[val_dramaqueen]

yes... i shall take the risk... i've decided...
i'll just say what i think. yup... i can see it now, looming >> REJECTION

ahhh well... there's always alcohol to drown my sorrows in

 

[cleopatra]

goin with mates is good. you know them better than anyone and its bound to work. well 4 me anyway. i like being with sum1 i kno so well cos i can trust him and all that shit. you just kno them.

btw, i not talkin bout the cheating trust, the trust that they'll b there and they'll look after you and treat you like a godess.

 

[jumb]

yes... i shall take the risk... i've decided...
i'll just say what i think. yup... i can see it now, looming >> REJECTION

ahhh well... there's always alcohol to drown my sorrows in

That was very pesimistic! If he says no, atleast you will know. It's better then pondering over what could have been.

 

[val_dramaqueen]

That was very pesimistic! If he says no, atleast you will know. It's better then pondering over what could have been.

im a very pessimistic person. which is bad...
but how exactly do you just ... tell them?
"hi, your my best friend, but i wanna say that i am inclined to rip your clothes off right now because i like you more than a friend"... like that?

 

[wrong_turn]

im a very pessimistic person. which is bad...
but how exactly do you just ... tell them?
"hi, your my best friend, but i wanna say that i am inclined to rip your clothes off right now because i like you more than a friend"... like that?

i'm a guy. and i would say, what took you?

and if i were in that situation it would be awesome, though surprising. but i would take a chance.

 

[val_dramaqueen]

you would say "what took you?"

eh????

 

[jumb]

im a very pessimistic person. which is bad...
but how exactly do you just ... tell them?
"hi, your my best friend, but i wanna say that i am inclined to rip your clothes off right now because i like you more than a friend"... like that?

Well i dont know about your friend but that would work for me.

 

[val_dramaqueen]

Well i dont know about your friend but that would work for me.

that's what someone else said!! maybe the "i wanna rip your clothes off approach" will work after all

i might think of a more subtle approach...

 

[jumb]

I wanna rip your clothes off please?

 

[val_dramaqueen]

ONE SMALL DETAIL I FORGOT TO MENTION

ages ago when i only knew him slightly, an aquaintance if you will... i said "I liek you".. he said "what?" and i said "I LIKE you"... and we just stood there for ages, his mouth slightly open and i walked away because he didn't say anything...

then we avoided eachother for ages until i said "Do you hate me? i'm sorry" and he said "No, i thought you hated me" and blah blah blah

since then, we became friends, now i'd say he's my best friend... and so.. now we have come to the present date...

 

[kHiTs]

That is SUCH a girl thing to say! It's not your fault for being shallow and not having the guts to tell this guy you like him, is it? The whole world's against you, yeah, that must be it!

shallow? about what? clearly, if this guy friend of mine is trying to hook me up wif someone, he doesnt like me...hence, i wont waste my breathe, and risk my pride telling him what i feel...

where did u get the "whole world is against you" bit? i just said "crazy world"...omg..such a schmuck...lolz...clearly... a sexist too... such a girl thing...yeah right...

 

[val_dramaqueen]

ok, enough of the bicth fights lady and man

lets just talk nicely....

 

[kHiTs]

ok, enough of the bicth fights lady and man

lets just talk nicely....

im all up for that...

Im always nice..