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filosophy

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sup dudes and dudettes

i've actually found this interesting, cos its happened at my school. & & everyone went f**n APE. is it FUNNY or POOR.
send a love letter? or receive one from an anonymous or a gutsy person who told ya who he was...or left an email.. haha


most looking for opinions from girls about what they feel if any gets a random folder letter end up next to their bag...and then they see its for them...
do their eyes light up or somethin?
or probably it'll depend on who actually made it and whether they like them or not.

but then u might feel ur being stalked and put it simply..its just something they try to ignore or maybe talk it up with friends ...and u might hear?
"omg..he really likes me?"

or

"wat an idiot"

but from what i've found out...they don't really lead anywhere.
so what does a girl...or guy..do when he or she receives such a letter?

keep it? or chuck it away? and how do u feel. stalked or orgasmic? or something else?
 
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for our 6 month aniversarary i drew my miss a picture of us holind hans with birds and butterflies roaming around

it was like stick figure drawing
and the coloring wasn't even in the line
i diddn't spend one dollar, and found a gift that made her heaps happy
she put it on her wall

so i dunno
depends on who u are in relation to them
and what relationship u have with them before u send it,
 
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filosophy said:
sup dudes and dudettes

i've actually found this interesting, cos its happened at my school. & & everyone went f**n APE. is it FUNNY or POOR.
send a love letter? or receive one from an anonymous or a gutsy person who told ya who he was...or left an email.. haha


most looking for opinions from girls about what they feel if any gets a random folder letter end up next to their bag...and then they see its for them...
do their eyes light up or somethin?
or probably it'll depend on who actually made it and whether they like them or not.

but then u might feel ur being stalked and put it simply..its just something they try to ignore or maybe talk it up with friends ...and u might hear?
"omg..he really likes me?"

or

"wat an idiot"

but from what i've found out...they don't really lead anywhere.
so what does a girl...or guy..do when he or she receives such a letter?

keep it? or chuck it away? and how do u feel. stalked or orgasmic? or something else?
you are a homo. congratulations.
:santa:
 

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for my first girlfriend i wrote a love letter

"fuck me tonight its my birthday in a month"

i ended up buying her dinner. so technically we went out for a night
 

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it depends,
like if you put no name on the letter then came foward like later.. id probably fantasise about who sent me the letter :p
but from a stranger =/ hrmm. if you lived close to me.. it might be ok.. or if you were a friend of a friend... otherwise i may be a tad freaked out.

and it also depends what you wrote on the letter..
im likely to take word-for-word very serious, and deeply read into it..
not sure if others would be the same but i would. and i would probably read the letter 5 or so times.

but i certainly think you should go talk to the girl after she gets it....
you just dont want it to rub off as you being to chicken to talk to her

if you are good at poetry.. a poem would be really hot.

the thing is, i have had a few guys come up to me and chat, generally i am ok.. but if they are extremely extremely hot, i get so nervous, laugh stupidly sometimes, and say the darnest things.. so id feel more calm if the hot guy gave me letter first, just so i can get my cool together..

hey what can i say... i am a weird chick? maybe some chicks think the same? i doubt it but you never know.

i hope this somehow helped =/ doubt it did.

Beck
 

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sja said:
for my first girlfriend i wrote a love letter

"fuck me tonight its my birthday in a month"

i ended up buying her dinner. so technically we went out for a night
haha you were used
 

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I try to talk to you
And can't get past the weather
The friend I thought I knew
Found somethin' somewhere better
So I'm hangin' on your line
Thought we could speak together
Don't know what it is with you
You seem gone forever

I'm spending all my time
Driving 'round, faking clever
With a girl who seem alright
And another one who's better
I don't know if I lied
When I said we're not together
But I tried to talk to you
And somehow you seem gone...

I know what could've been
Try not to think about it
Found it hard to live with this
Longed to live without it
My dreams have caught me out
I find myself surrounded
By the odds of our own ends
Enough said about it

I'm spending all my time
Driving 'round, faking clever
With a girl who seem alright
And another one who's better
I don't know if I lied
When I said we're not together
But I tried to talk to you
And somehow you seem gone...

I've given up some things
I guess that doesn't matter
Started other things
I guess that doesn't matter
I finally wrote your song
Another unsent letter
In a pile addressed to you
Care of something somewhere better

I'm spending all my time
Driving 'round, faking clever
With a girl who seem alright
And another one who's better
I don't know if I lied
When I said we're not together
But I tried to talk to you
And somehow you seem gone...

I'm spending all my time
Driving 'round, faking clever
With a girl who seem alright
And another one who's better
I don't know if I lied
When I said that I'm together
But I tried to talk to you
And somehow you seem gone forever
Yeah, I tried to talk to you
And somehow you seem gone forever
Yeah, I tried to talk to you
Somehow you seem gone...
 

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Love letters are dangerous. Physical evidence of your feelings. Scary.

I know someone who poured her heart out to her boyfriend on paper. Reading the letter, he realised he didn't feel the same way and didn't want to keep pulling her along, so he dumped her.

So be careful mkoi. Same with emails. Emails can be forwarded cruelly.
 

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scarybunny said:
Love letters are dangerous. Physical evidence of your feelings. Scary.

I know someone who poured her heart out to her boyfriend on paper. Reading the letter, he realised he didn't feel the same way and didn't want to keep pulling her along, so he dumped her.

So be careful mkoi. Same with emails. Emails can be forwarded cruelly.
so true... hence dont tell anyone anything... even if you think you 100% sure
and, on the topic... love letters are crude-an easy manner to get mocked... emails-stupid, as sometimes your eyes arent the only ones that read the words, and, confessing in person? ever heard of a cold bitch? LMAO.. thre isnt a good way of expressing 'love', if such a term even exists...
 

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millieforever said:
so true... hence dont tell anyone anything... even if you think you 100% sure
and, on the topic... love letters are crude-an easy manner to get mocked... emails-stupid, as sometimes your eyes arent the only ones that read the words, and, confessing in person? ever heard of a cold bitch? LMAO.. thre isnt a good way of expressing 'love', if such a term even exists...

oo, somebody's bitter ay. good points on the fact that it's true emails can be forwarded and such like, and love letters can be mocked, but i think they have their time and place.

i dont exactly know what i'd do if i found a note from some random guy pouring out his heart to me; i guess it'd depend on whether he left a name and whether i liked him as to how i'd react, but i think i'd be a lil wary - you never know, it could be a cruel joke "oo look what we got her to believe" sorta thing.

on the other hand, i looved getting emails from my g/f when we were together, just random things saying she loved me and she missed me and so on, and i sent her a poem-type dealy that i wrote which she liked, and everyone was all warm'n'fuzzy. but i spose at that point i knew 100% how she felt and she knew how i felt so there wasnt really a risk factor. it was really nice though, i think an email or a letter just to let your loved one know that you're thinking of them is sweet. like once she wrote to me "smile because you're beautiful and i love you" - it doesnt have to be long but it was really sweet.

so love letters to people you're involved with (provided you're pretty sure they wont get freaked by you expressing your feelings) get a BIG thumbs up from me. love letters from randoms i would be wary, i personally wouldnt do it, you're better off doing it in person - no physical evidence to be passed around and mocked.
 
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these days i hear some people pick up by asking girls for their email..

i think sticking to traditional love letters would be pretty hot..
 
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ithinkurmumshot said:
these days i hear some people pick up by asking girls for their email..
LOL are you serious?!?!?!

That's both hilarious and sad at the same time...

"Hi I just wanted to tell you that I find you very attractive, and I get tingles up and down my spine just thinking about sending you an email"

:rofl:
 

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kazan said:
for our 6 month aniversarary i drew my miss a picture of us holind hans with birds and butterflies roaming around

it was like stick figure drawing
and the coloring wasn't even in the line
i diddn't spend one dollar, and found a gift that made her heaps happy
she put it on her wall

so i dunno
depends on who u are in relation to them
and what relationship u have with them before u send it,
haha i love that. thats so cute.
 

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