Maintaining a relationship (1 Viewer)

[tommykins]

What do you guys think makes a relationship last?

To me, its to tolerate any kind of bumps that come along. I dislike seeing things in a pessimistic way, such as insecurity as being negative, I view it as something that shows me that my partner cares for me in such she is worried about OUR wellbeing.

Any other pointers would be awesome.

inb4 sex.

 

[Zrap]

good sex, great sex, fantastic sex.

 

[Roguedeth]

3rd with sex

 

[Evilo]

To me, its to tolerate any kind of bumps that come along.

don't tolerate everything that pisses you off, otherwise you'll get walked over and you just won't enjoy the relationship. Tolerate some stuff, but mention other things that get to you.

 

[jumb]

for the woman to cook and clean

 

[Enteebee]

mutual dependence.

 

[tommykins]

don't tolerate everything that pisses you off, otherwise you'll get walked over and you just won't enjoy the relationship. Tolerate some stuff, but mention other things that get to you.

Yeah I realised my wording was wrong, tolerate alot of things but establish that you are independant and if shit goes through the roof, you'll be gone.

 

[all.time.fiend]

a common disdain for the the human race and mutual love of hairless bodies.

 

[Aralia]

Be a good person.

Find a good person.

 

[fernando]

communication, trust and honesty.

 

[tommykins]

communication, trust and honesty.

Haha, it's ironic that my relationship just fucked up cause I was communicating and being honest.

Not having a go at your suggestions, I agree completely, but its just funny how sometimes its like that.

 

[fernando]

Haha, it's ironic that my relationship just fucked up cause I was communicating and being honest.

Not having a go at your suggestions, I agree completely, but its just funny how sometimes its like that.

yeah some people don't appreciate honesty. but then again it depends on what you were being honest about

 

[tommykins]

yeah some people don't appreciate honesty. but then again it depends on what you were being honest about

Yeah, but it wasn't that I cheated, but the fact I didn't that pissed her off.

Weird long story.

 

[Riet]

You need to trim it continally to keep it under control and then prune it quite hard in winter so that it blooms beautifully in spring.

 

[HalcyonSky]

unpredictability.

once things get predictable relationships start getting PWND

 

[fernando]

unpredictability.

once things get predictable relationships start getting PWND

that's true.. fun and spontaneity