santaslayer
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You don't necessarily have to talk to her when she's online...just becuase you're dating each other dosen't mean you own each other...both deserve some private time as well...
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MSN and a new relationship (1 Viewer)
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sparkl3z
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i dont get y u wud want to block her........its a new relationship.......so shouldnt you be getting to know her better ??? N' If u block her now dont you think that she would think that you dont like her or something...?
gemita
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No wonder you don't "talk about shit". You'll never reach a stage where you can have a non-fluffy conversation if you're avoiding talking to her at all, will you? I'm confused...why are you in a relationship if you don't want to talk to her?
Beckiki_S
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um I say go with away... when you block people you never get talk to them, and if you never talk to her, it'll always be a boring, shallow r'ship.
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You could always make another account. You can ask BreaKing how to do that, he knows all about MSN accounts.
Though maybe it would be more mature to deal with it and find you don't have to talk every time you're both online.
Though maybe it would be more mature to deal with it and find you don't have to talk every time you're both online.
Gemita is completely right. I don't see how you will get to talk about "shit" if you just ignore her now. You do know that there isn't some magic button that you can press! Do you really want to be with her, I know it may be a bit awkward if you only just got together but it should get better if you actually make an effort.gemita said:
Wild Dan Hibiki
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"so err what are you wearing tonight?" is a line i regularly use to keep convos going
Dont talk to much on msn, when you call her or see her then you dont have much to say caus you allready told her loads on msn, save all the conversation for the phone or talk to her in person the relationship will last much longer
Yes,mr_speedy said:
yes, agaain.noxious said:
I'm thnking like this: when in a relationship, you can talk and stuff in person or on the phone. Actual living, breathing conversation, not the reading and typing bullshit. Because essentially each day its like how are you? what're you up to? blah blah when you could save the formalities and just fuck.
I use msn for talking to a number of people simultaneously or juse passing time. She's on my list obviosuly, but i also have a valid use for it rather than getting to know someone. It's for the people I know quite well already. So that's really what I'm getting at.
Stories, experiences, advice. Nothing else is a problem, i just feel being in constant contact at this stage puts a strain on things.
Wild Dan Hibiki
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i agree, talking on the phone is way kooler than talking on the net. the dirty talk is more worthwhile.
thejosiekiller
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id say its not you... its me - god bless costanza
or tell her the truth ah nicely as possible- if it is possible....which its not
or tell her the truth ah nicely as possible- if it is possible....which its not
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i had a similiar problem with my ex g/f about 2 months ago before we broke up... everytime we were both on the net we would talk, but the conversation would just go stale... and also the biggest problem with the net is its so easy to misinterpret wat the other person is trying to say... did they mean this? did they mean that?... it got to the stage that i wouldnt want to talk to her on the net because we always seemed to get into an argument over silly silly things, but when we talked on the phone or we were together it was perfect... just weird, msn is the devil when it comes to relationships
shortie_689
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Yeah I had a similar situattion with my ex he would just talk and talk about nothing and then put me in a bad mood... I think "fluff" talk if you don't like it block her and don't talk but you can always use msn as the vehicle for pulling through the stage.mathock said:
nah its not!! i met my bf on msnmathock said:
n we're still going out and im moving in with him next year hehen to circle9..maaan...why the fk r u in a r/ship if u dont even know wat to talk to her about? wat tha hell? like...wen ur someones bf or gf, it because u like them and find u can talk about anything, whether its msn, on the fone, or watever.... i dont get some people sometimes...anywHo...