Tulipa
Loose lips sink ships
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why does he have a warehouse?
hahaha sorta. I'm so late in catching up to this. My way was to "find out" whether they do have one. Not to ask them out.AsyLum said:I think Stef posted a really clever way of doing it somewhere, but somewhere along the lines of:
Hey do you want to coffee? I'm going with a few friends, you can bring your girlfriend if you want?
If he says he doesn't have one, bingo.
melimoo said:ok
so through quite a number of large coincidences i have decided that there is this one boy i most definitely want to snag. i must for it is obviously fate. that and he's like the most perfect in every way possible and i've been reduced to hours of giggling and can't stop thinking about him. its sickening.
so the story is i've only met him twice and i got a random email from him the other day and now im sending one back and i want to be like "lolz we should head out for coffee sometime" but am afraid of sounding like a desperate poncey dickknob. so how do i organise to see him again? (ps. not sure of his relationship status - hoping for single!! )
um, yeah any ideas?
haha see i tried this 'are you living with yr girlfriend?' and got nothingur_inner_child said:hahaha sorta. I'm so late in catching up to this. My way was to "find out" whether they do have one. Not to ask them out.
*any conversation*
"You saw that movie with your boyfriend ay"
"How are you getting home? Are you getting picked up by your boyfriend?"
etc
and finally:
"Oh you don't have a boyfriend? Oh but for someone that looks like you its safe to assume you do."
*cashes in*
Fail Meli. Waiting for the other person to make a move will often end in regret and wondering at what might have been. Spend a couple of hours with him, say "That was fun, we should really do it again", then when you first see him that next time ask him how he'd feel about stepping up the second coffee to a date.melimoo said:but im going to wait for him to make the move now on accountof he just broke up with his girlfriend :/
I agree with this.withoutaface said:Fail Meli. Waiting for the other person to make a move will often end in regret and wondering at what might have been. Spend a couple of hours with him, say "That was fun, we should really do it again", then when you first see him that next time ask him how he'd feel about stepping up the second coffee to a date.